What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ukraine
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Sales manager in IT
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Feel extra attraction to girls younger than me
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10-15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A School Girl Mistress
How long ago did this hookup happen? Started two year ago ended a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Veronika was tall bleach blond hair girl with very cute face. She is slim with big ass and A to B cups. Her face is really of baby type, very cute. Before the first sex I didn’t know her very well, just chatted a couple of day on social network.
I was 32 or 33 when I met her. By that time I was married for 10 or so years and had kids. In terms of sex my relationship with my wife were not going very well though loved her very much and still do. I guess that was a key reason why I was looking for a quickie (paid sex) at dedicated groups in local social network. That is exactly where I’ve met her. She needed money (moved from another city without much parent support), so we agreed for quick blowjob in my car for small sponsorship from my side.
When I first saw her she looked very catchy and fantastic. I remember thinking to myself, “I got really lucky today :)* What I’ve noticed is that she looked really young, so I decided to ask how old was she and she told: “Don’t worry, I’m over 18”. In any case that day she gave me fantastic blowjob and I came to her mouth.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After that meeting I thought that everything would end, but no :). She did message me asking how I liked our meeting etc, so we started to chat and sexting, she send me some nudes and so on. In any case we agreed for another meeting. Again I picked her up, we had a lovely walk in the park with ice-cream, holding hands just like a regular couple.
By the end of the evening I did raise the question regarding my relationship status and what were her thoughts regarding me being married. And she said she just wanted to have a good time and some fun. The evening approached, so I decided to take her home, but she had some other plans :). She asked me to take a turn and to pull over in an isolated area. When we moved, we kissed and moved to the back seat of my car. There she took of her panties and bra. With all the kisses and my hands being all over her body I got really existed, so she helped to take off my pants and guided my dick raw right inside her pussy. I was very excited thus except for my wife I had never ever fucked anybody raw. Before I finished I pulled it out and came to her butt. Immediately after that she turned around and whipped it clean with her mouth.
There was a lot of planning involved, thus I was married and had to be very careful. Everything happened better then I expected. I was thinking about sex on third or fourth date, but it happened on the first one
She was the one instigated the sex and I obviously didn’t mind
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I thinks she was really sex addicted and in for me. In any case we agreed that we will continue this affair in secret. On a third or fourth date she had a confession to made. She said that she was just 17 and was still studding in school (last year). Frankly speaking it was a shock for me, thus this was illegal in my country for grown up to have sex with an under age. In any case she said that she hope this fact will not influence our relationship in any way. But it did. Actually the fact that she was a little bit underage made me want her even more.
She was all about experiments in sex and as you could understand I didn’t mind. We did communicate a lot via social network and discussed our likes and dislikes in sex and when we met we just realized our fantasies. A few of them that I will remember for life:
Rape imitation. I rented an apartment for her to stay in my city. We agreed that I’ll have a key and will show up whenever I’ll have a chance to and will brutally strike. So I did. I showed up in the morning just when she was having a shower. Hide in her room. And when she showed up and laid on the bad i pushed my self on her and forced her to do as I wanted to, slapped her face a few times, covered her mouth for her not to scream and fucked her hard. I came on her pussy and made her eat all my cum. All this was discussed in advance. We’ve discussed it afterward and we both liked it and decided to repeat. She even said that she felt her knees shacking.
Another time to remember was sex during her periods. Yes there were a lot of blood, but she aloud me to cum inside her pussy. It was amazing. And again her knees were shaking.
Once she we were going to have a date and a sex, but she knew that I like strip clubs, so she suggested us to go there. and we did. It was unbelievable fun, private dances for pair I could see all body shaking and afterwards I had the best sex ever. She was really wasted and didn’t remember much of the evening. I cum 5 or 6 time on her face, pussy, mouth, etc. I literal did what ever I wanted. After the strip club we decided to find another girl that would like to join us for MFF (never happened, cause I was caught by me wife and ended this relationship).
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I was caught I had to end this relationship. It was really good and quality sex, but still it was just sex and I loved my wife and children and had no intention to leave them. I worked really hard to restore my marriage and family and I did. Actually it gave a new impulse to my relationship with my wife.
During the relationship I did felt quilt before my wife, but as it continued it was fading away, besides she (wife) was saying that she didn’t need much sex.
I feel a little regret that this relationship ended, but still glad that they did. From one hand it gives you extra self-esteem to fuck a school girl from the other hand it takes a lot of effort and energy to arrange meeting and keep it on a low. In any case I’m glad that I had this experience.
As for Veronika despite the fact that I was always telling her that this is just a sex and nothing more and she agreed with me at the end she did felt in love with me and was crying when I left her. She was hoping to continue in a month or so when everything would settle. She wrote me a couple of time saying something like “I miss you so much”, but I never replied to her messages. I hope that she will find a decent guy/men her age to built healthy relationship.
I would like to meet her in the future and just for friendly talk and nothing more, just to check how she is and recall some our stories.
This story opened my eyes on how strongly I love my wife.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature), oral sex
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, New experience, Self-esteem, fun
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Few friends.
I think most of them were jealous: to fuck a sexy looking hot wife and to have young and hot sex-addicted mistress. But all of them warned me to be careful not to get caught etc.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Got caught
Hurt my wife’s feeling and trust
Hurt my mistress filling
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex of all kind and type, experiments,
Feeling of pride and self-esteem
Feeling that you are breaking all the rules: under 18, mistress
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Took a lot of time, effort and energy to arrange meeting, conceal the truth, lies etc.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex. Casual sex is absolutely ok if you are single or if this will not hurt your existing partner (open relationships) and/or a person you’ll have a casual sex with.
Sexuality. Didn’t change a things, I still like pretty girls 🙂
Myself. Well it did improve my self-esteem. I help me to realize that I’m successful and well build (sport men) and that I’m very attractive and desirable man and both young and my age ladies would like to make up with me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish I would get caught
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As I said before. Casual sex is ok in college environment, but when it comes to long-standing relationship it can be very dangerous and bring a lot of pain, so you must be really careful with this.
I lost my virginity to my wife and was loyal to her for 7 or more years. Then I introduced casual sex to my life. As long as it’s one night stand or paid sex and it is safe it is ok, but not to often thus you can’t loose focus and spend to much energy that is meant to your partner. Key message: If you have relationship and you still need casual sex to improve your self esteem or for some other reasons do it, but be very careful not to get caught and don’t spend much time and effort on it. And most important don’t get caught
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting stories:) I got very excited reading some of them 🙂
As for the rest I don’t know the purpose of this project, so can’t say much on this one.
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