What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States/Minneapolis
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Administration University
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? In sexless marriage
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
All In The Family
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Autumn is my 1st cousin and is 42. She is married with a couple of kids. She has blonde hair and bright blue eyes. Autumn is really into running and being healthy. She is thin, about 5 foot 6 inches, and her body is firm and tight. I’ve known her for a long time though I live away from her. I was 14 when I first met her. We communicate a lot via Facebook and some by email or messenger just to keep in touch. I have always thought that Autumn is very cute and attractive and the thought has occurred to me from time to time, that if ever had the opportunity I would totally make love to her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was visiting for a week for work at the University of Minnesota and Autumn had demanded I not get a hotel but I stay with her and her family. Her husband was out of town and she wanted to catch up. On the third day of being there, I was done with my meetings and just hanging out. Autumn and I had stayed up until the night before until around 2:00 a.m. talking and I had gone to bed. Around 8 a.m. the door to my room opened and I was still groggy as I was waking up when I felt a body crawl into bed with me and hug me from behind.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? “My kids are at school and we are alone,” Autumn whispered. I turned over to face her raising an eyebrow and her smile was welcoming to me. I smiled back at Autumn and asked: “Why are you here?” Autumn kept smiling and came over to me, kissing me. First, it was a peck then another and another and I felt my dick hardening. Autumn’s firm body was now pressing against mine, her hands ran over my body and her right hand discovered my hardening penis.
Autumn now kissed me, her tongue eagerly entering my mouth and I welcomed it. I had no problem kissing her and now my hands sought her body, caressing and feeling her. Her breasts are a decent size, not large, not small, just perfect to suck on. We undressed each other and lay naked side by side. I was fingering her pussy by now causing her to moan as she kept stroking my dick making it so hard.
Autumn, without saying a word, wrapped her leg over me, exposing her wet pussy to me. I withdrew my finger and Autumn moved it to her mouth, licking her wetness off of it. We now paused, looking at each other. Her right hand then grabbed my dick and guided it to her pussy opening and I slide right inside of her. Autumn as I entered her fully, simply said “So good!”
Slowly we made love now, moving back and forth as our bodies became one. We moved after 10 minutes of spooning face to face, to Autumn riding on top of me, thrusting my dick in and out of her pussy faster and faster. I would feel her boobs and then we would interlock our fingers with each other as Autumn rode me faster and faster. Suddenly she screamed out and fell on top of me, her head resting next to me. I exploded my cum deep inside of her, shooting my cum several times inside of her.
We lay with each other and Autumn told me I was only her second lover. Her husband was her first. I asked her how she liked it and she said “incredible.” We talked about being cousins but had no issue with it and slowly we began to make out, to pet and feel each other and to turn each other on. We then made love again. I entered her Autumn and said, “Yes, so damn good.” Autumn came again and I shot my load several more times inside of her.
We made love two more times that day before her kids came home, then after they went to bed again that night. The next morning, after the kids left, we made love in the shower, and then three times more. I ate her out one time and she gave me a blow job.
The next day was our last before I left and we made love all day and then again that night a couple of times. Autumn was sad I was leaving, telling me she wished our kissing and sex would go on. I promised it would as I came back to the University of Minnesota each quarter. We made love again before I left to get on my flight and I left very reluctantly. My cousin Autumn is incredible and has left my hunger for more time alone with her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are messaging and using Google Hangouts to communicate now daily and discuss what happened between us. We are arranging our next week-long sex adventure. No expectation of leaving our spouses but we both want a very long term sexual relationship with each other. We loved our casual cousin sex. Autumn has a week coming in February where she usually goes off with her girlfriends for a break and now she is going to meet me in the Bahama’s for a week-long vacation and daily sexual encounters!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just Autumn and me
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex and bonding we share together. We are like a hand in a glove, we just fit together, and our sex is just incredible!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? All for cousin casual sex!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was surprised but Autumn had the point that we are safe as sexual companions. We know each other, don’t want to be divorced but we are perfect sexually together. Best to keep it All in the Family she said.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This casual sex was fulfilling, allowed us to let off sexual steam and to really enjoy it with no connections.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting to see how others feel about casual sex.
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