by Ryan D
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny, Promiscuous, Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 140+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 10
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 11 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Jacqueline at a frat party. She was a French student who was really hot, with a Pixie cut and black hair, as well as great green eyes. A lot of stories were spreading about how she was sleeping around a lot, which really made me want to fuck her. She had a good body, very willowy and thin, with a great, pert booty and small-ish, but perky tits.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a frat party and I got the chance to talk to her. We started to hit it off, and she was giggling when we flirted. Soon, we moved on to talking about sex and it got even hotter. We were making out while I was feeling up her ass. She clearly knew how to make out and her tongue was doing things my 19-year-old mind found mind-blowing. She then invited me to come over to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got to her place, she just took off her clothes quickly, like someone who was clearly very experienced at bringing people to her room and fucking. I then stripped and we continued making out because she was a really good kisser. We did everything. I ate her out, she sucked me off, I got to suck off her tits, and then we did regular missionary, doggy style, anal sex and she even rode. We each came multiple times. We then took it to the shower and washed ourselves off, among other things. She told me I could stay over, and after some more fooling around, we fell asleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I woke up to find her sucking my dick again. We then proceeded to have morning sex, which was even hotter. I then got dressed, gave her my number, and we agreed to start a casual thing. I would regularly come over and we’d hook up, and she would tell me about her sex life, and the different guys and girls she was fucking. It was very hot. She even sent me a few videos of herself having sex, which I really appreciated. We had great sex throughout college and after. We even had threesomes and foursomes regularly, with guys and girls. She looks all innocent and cute on the outside, but she’s very wild in private 😉
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, Everyone else was/is doing it, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Word spread around I had hooked up with her. My friends gave her high fives, and some of them got to fuck her too. We compared notes a bit.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was so hot and flirty, and she really knew how to pleasure a guy. It was all very spontaneous.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing, except for it to have gone for longer, lol.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more determined to have sex with a lot of women and explore my sexuality further. I was incentivized to sleep around as much as possible, which I did, and continue to do today.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We still try to hook up regularly whenever one of us is in town. She’s still really hot, and still really promiscuous.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great
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