What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Office Worker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He works in the same place as I am but in different roles. He’s a white man and fairly attractive and a foot taller than me. We’ve worked in the same department for 2 years (gee where does time fly?) but he’s taken on a different role in the past 6 months. Sure, I was attracted to him at the beginning, but he was dating someone at that stage. As time progressed, I treated him as a normal co-worker; while casually catching up at the end last year he started to flirt with me (it was just me and him that time). He then asked for my number and it went on from there. I’d commenced my Christmas leave that time and only communicated by text, when he mentioned that he was attracted to me. I wanted to hookup after my Christmas party but it didn’t happen (he didn’t go, plus he had to cover Saturday). Despite sending rather mixed texts, I was up for it as I wasn’t sure when I would have sex in my life – I’d been wanting it for a while. We’ve been hooking up ever since and seeing what happens.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He texted me an hour before I finished my shift asking if I wanted to come over, and I was up for it. It was spontaneous. I wore my black tight pants, which he likes as it shows off my legs and butt, and my work shirt. After I finished work, I walked out of the office (to avoid suspicion even though most people had gone home) and then he walked out. We chatted casually on the way to his car which was normal to us about how out weekend was, etc. We both are drinkers.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got into the car, I just sat in the car whilst he drove. He then asked me to show my underwear underneath my pants. I wore a thong panty, which he likes. Next minute he started feeling me up by touching my pussy where my pants were, and then he progressed to placing his hand into my pants and feeling it there. I was slightly aroused at that stage. Whilst feeling down there, I held onto his left arm and held onto it until he parked his car. I could tell he was horny. We then reached his place after getting a burrito and red wine. We reached his apartment; I put my things down and he turned on his kitchen tap. As I proceeded to take my shoes off and stood up, I then felt his hands grabbed my butt and then he pulled down my pants to feel down there (I was already aroused). I then went on all fours and then he licked, slightly spit into my pussy, spanked, and kissed my butt. I became even more wet. I then sat on his couch and told me to feel his dick – it was stiff already. He pulled his pants and then his undies down to suck on his dick. With every lick and motion, his dick became harder and more aroused. He encouraged me to put it all the way into my mouth, but I didn’t have the guts to yet. I just had to be careful with my teeth, as I’ve accidentally gone too hard and bit him on occasions. Then he asked me enthusiastically if he could fuck me, and I told him just as long as he doesn’t cum, it was fine. He put it in and he felt really good, as it was deep and all the way in. I told him that it’s best to be safe as I’m not on the pill and he was cool with it.
We sat on the couch and whilst drinking he tried to find my clit, but it was sensitive so he had to go softer. Again I went on all fours and then took a photo of my butt whilst sucking his dick. He then licked my pussy again. He put a condom on and checked whether the kitchen would be suitable to fuck in. I wanted to but the height wasn’t short enough for me and then I slightly bent over to show my butt so he could insert his dick into me. It felt good – however I felt like i was sliding because he’s tall and I’m exactly a foot shorter. I tried kneeling on his computer chair but it was unstable so we sat on his couch. I then squatted and then inserted his penis into me and we fucked. It felt so good as he thrust into me. He’s had a lot going on at work, so I told him, “Fuck all your stress into me.” I also really wanted to have sex today. There was spanking and butt clenching involved. As we fucked, I breathed heavily onto his neck and as I was arching, he squeezed my nonexistent boobies and that felt good. He likes a tight pussy and I like a big cock. I then went onto my knees and turned away, and we fucked again. He recorded it on his own phone for his own pleasure. After that I got on all fours and again he pounded hard and I could feel it (he was getting close to cumming). He laid on top of me, took out and came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He felt relieved afterwards and I felt good. I was hoping for a longer session, but as it was a weeknight and he had work tomorrow, it was best not to go overboard. We showered, got dressed and headed our ways. He was going to watch UFC and I headed to the gym with red wine in my system. We’ve hooked up a number of times in the past month and like we said, we just wanted to see what happens. It hasn’t changed us at all. It does give me an incentive to wear more form fitting clothes to work. I’m slowly getting better at it as it was my first time doing penetrative/oral stuff.
I’m happy to come over during a weekend where we can drink, fuck longer, and not have to worry about work the next day. All it takes is a text to see where we are at during the day. The upside is that I’m 5 minutes away from him, so I can plan runs and hookups then. I mentioned that I have upcoming leave in March and will be using that to my advantage, depending on the day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history, Insertion for feel only and then pull out
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. It’s only between us.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Him feeling me up, slight booze, him pounding me hard and seeing my arse.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really. I wish we had gone on longer and harder.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It gets better the more you do it. As I’m fairly inexperienced, I’ve opened up to casual sex since I don’t want the emotional attachment with dating/relationships. I’ve been led on once and it hurt and caused complete confusion for 2 weeks. He’s told me that his experience with first timers was that they can be emotionally attached. Surprisingly, this hasn’t been the case as I’m aware of what this involves. As I’m older, I’m aware of what my body desires. I really enjoy this and wanting to learn more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Be upfront with your sexual experiences whether little or not. For those starting out, find someone whose got a fair bit of experience and it will help. Before this, I was just fondling/touching/masturbating. Being a late bloomer meant I have all this sexual energy pent up to use now and experience. I come from traditional parents who think it is taboo (plus I don’t want to tell anyone about it). I’m not currently seeking a relationship/dating at the moment and want to enjoy this hookup, and take things as they come.
I’ve got part time uni (balancing full time work at the same time) coming up so this would be a good opportunity to explore. Be clear with what casual sex/hookups involve, as we women fall into the trap of being led on (like what happened to me), and keep your emotions in the check. Other than that, it’s a good opportunity to explore and experience new things.
Being mindful for first timers: pick someone who you feel comfortable with.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great idea, thank you.
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