Bi Bi Being Straight



What’s your gender? Genderqueer / Nonbinary
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Kingsport, TN
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? social worker
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? feminine submissive pantyboy
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Bi Bi Being Straight

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4yrs

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m usually into women until this happened.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met Ray on a dating site.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went to his apartment and we had a few drinks. I told him about my fantasy of being with a man since I was around twelve. I always knew something wasn’t normal about being attracted to guys but I was. Yet, I was also attracted to girls. I explained that I didn’t want a relationship, just a hookup. After a bit, we eventually just started getting into it. We were locked in a passionate embrace and immediately my hand began searching for his cock. I unbuttoned his jeans and grabbed his hard cock in my hand as he began leading me to the bedroom. He told me to get on my knees and to suck his cock. It was so exciting feeling his cock going in and out of my mouth. He then reached over to the nightstand and grabbed a bottle. I felt oil running down my ass and he told me he loved my ass as his fingers began proving deeper and deeper inside me. His cock began to swell and I heard his grunt as his hot come filled my mouth. We only took a small break and I began to finger myself as he bit the cheeks of my ass. The feel of more oil ran into my hole and I wasn’t prepared for what happened next. He raised my legs in the air and began to eat my ass. It felt so awesome and I came onto my belly without even touching my dick. He then rose up and told me this was going to hurt a bit. I could feel his hard cock pressing on my ass as the head slipped in. It only hurt for a moment, but after a few small strokes, all of his cock was inside my ass and the pain turned to pleasure. I was coming over and over as he fucked me. I get his cock get harder and then I felt his come running into my ass. We were both exhausted by the end of this.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Ray is one of my best friends. I hope we continue to fuck. We have an open relationdhip

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Meth

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve only told one friend. They were shocked but very happy that I had explored this avenue of sex I had wanted for so long.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Him fucking me and giving him oral.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think sex is great no matter who you are with.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was 42 when I finally did this. I always wanted to have another man dominate me. I wished I would have done it way earlier. It changed ny whole life. I wanted to be with a man so bad yet would not do it because of I was afraid of being shunned by my family. I say bi when people ask but I’m gay.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I will have to investigate it more before answering.

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