What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Muncie
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Operator/Laborer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Blonde hair. Brown eyes. 5’2 approximately 220lbs. She was my friend’s ex-girlfriend. They dated all throughout high school knowing her only through him and I never thought much of her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? 6 months after their break-up. I was talking on the phone with her roommate when she had to do something and handed the phone off to my friend’s ex. Although we knew each other for many years, she was the type of person that started drama a lot so I never really associated much with her and not having a lot to talk about, we somehow ended up quickly on a conversation regarding sex. She was still single and had made the comment about how she hasn’t had any dick in 6 months. I was also single and in my care free days so I told her that she could use mine if she wanted. I was kind of joking but when she said “really?” I realized maybe I was serious enough that I would.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Within 30 minutes she was at my door. We then made an agreement to be on a “booty call” status just for sex when desired. We got under the covers and undressed where she quickly made her move by kissing me. It seemed awkward to kiss someone I didn’t even really like much less one I wasn’t particularly physically attracted to nor mentally.
She got on top and quickly forced my dick in her, so quick in fact that for a split second, I felt my dick bend from the pressure and it hurt quite a bit. She was quite forceful and she weighed enough that I couldn’t physically slow her down or do much of anything really. She laid directly on me, her weight made it a little hard to breathe and prevented my ability to move or do anything other than wiggle my toes.
Yet despite how it sounds, I actually liked it. I realized I liked being forced without having any control. She started off slow and I could feel her squeeze her pelvic muscles on the down stroke which made it feel really tight. She definitely knew how to ride. During the height of the moment, she was pounding on my really hard to the point where it actually hurt a little. So on her upstroke where her weight was off of me, I tried to scoot downwards a little to relieve some of the pressure on the pelvic region above my dick because she was slamming down on that area too hard making it hurt. But she would re-adjust and keep me in that same position.
It was a good sort of pain though. Perhaps just because her pussy felt so good inside. She told me she was ready for me to cum so I told her just as I could feel I was about to finish and she waited until the very last second to hop off of me which had me worried for a second. She definitely knew exactly what she was doing.
The next day I actually had a bruise in the pelvic area above my dick. No girl has ever ridden me that hard in my life. Despite the fact that I didn’t even really like this girl, it was some of the best sex I ever had.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She would call me whenever she wanted sex. She was very good at it but I otherwise had no attraction to her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? She told our circle of friends, including her ex (my friend) and I felt embarrassed, maybe a little ashamed. Everyone reacted with surprise.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wasn’t attracted to her. She was within my circle of friends and told everyone about it. I wanted to keep it secret.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? That it’s probably not the best idea to have sex with people that you have no attraction to.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? When I noticed that she was getting feelings for me, I ended the bootycall relationship and she took it very hard. That’s when she told my other friends because she wanted someone to talk to about it. I wasn’t attracted to her at all so despite the sex being very good, I was fearful that she would get too invested and broke it off for her own good.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Straight up honesty on what each other are wanting from it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I mentioned this on my previous story.
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