Choking a Redhead

by Kevin Finnerty

What’s your gender? Man
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Choking a Redhead

How long ago did this hookup happen? Five years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a classic redhead: milky skin, big blue eyes, long hair, very petite. Tiny, maybe a bit over five feet. We had met in college through a mutual friend and lived on the same floor. We had talked a bit about music and movies and flirted back and forth for about a month.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?  It started at a party of a friend we both know. Conveniently it was only a few doors down from my apartment. She was somewhat drunk and was giving me the eyes from across the room. People were getting a bit rowdy, but I wasn’t that drunk. I wasn’t sure whether to leave the party just yet as I was having a good time and wasn’t sure if I wanted to get to know her better first before sleeping together. I stay a bit longer for the party, and the hosts put on some stupid movie and turn the lights down. She sits next to me on the floor sort of away from the other guests. We slowly get closer until my arm is around her and she rests her head on my shoulder. Her hands start to move over my chest, up my shirt and start playing with my nipples. I honestly hate it when girls do that, so I shooed her hand away. She does it again, and I figured it would be fun to take her back to my place and fool around a bit since she is obviously really horny.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  I took her back to my place to “show her my movie collection.” She winks and plays along until we get there. She had these big blue eyes and is eye-fucking me harder than any other girl ever has. When we get into my room, I grab her around the waist and start kissing her neck. She moans and we make out briefly. She pulls me onto the bed and begins to undo my pants. I hesitate since she had been drinking, so I tell her that maybe we should wait until tomorrow because of the alcohol. She laughs and says fuck no. I ask again to be sure, and she said she’d been trying to fuck me for a month. She thought it was nice of me to ask anyway and it seemed to get her even hornier which I thought was funny.
I pull off her shirt. She had really small breasts with perfect pink tiny nipples. It was my first time sleeping with a girl with a flat chest, and I thought it was really hot. She had a petite body to match and probably weighed like 100 pounds. She was really aggressive and self-confident in bed which was a turn on. She gets on top of me and kisses from my chest down to my stomach and pulls down my pants and boxers the rest of the way. She starts to suck my cock which was kind of disappointing, just sucking on the tip while jerking me off. I was shocked that she wasn’t better given how good she was at everything else, but nobody’s perfect. While blowing me, she took her panties off, so I start fingering her. She starts moaning with my cock in her mouth, and it starts to get a little more fun. Her pussy was tight, shaved, and very wet. She asks if I have a condom and I grab one from my desk and put it on. I get on top of her to slide it into her pussy, and she grabs my face with both hands and looks me in the eyes as I slide it in. She was a really good fuck, and talked dirty to me practically nonstop, saying things like how thick my cock felt inside her tight wet pussy, that I was her fucktoy, and that she loved to watch me slip inside of her. I was getting really turned on and grabbed her around the neck and quickly let go. I figured choking was something you shouldn’t do to someone you barely know. She nods at me, and takes my hand and puts it around her neck. I felt like an animal, violently pumping her pussy, pinning her down with one hand and choking her with the other. I let go to make sure I wasn’t grabbing too hard, and she tells me to choke her harder. I came in her as I was choking her neck with both my hands as hard as I could. I felt like a king. She lied there for a few seconds, catching her breath and recovering. Her whole body quivered hard, and she rolled over to spoon me and said we need to do this again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Eventually, we found steady partners. I think she wanted something more, but we weren’t really compatible.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power/Dominance

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A lot of my friends. They weresurprisedd at how wild she was.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Discovering more of my dominant side, experiencing a very adventurous woman

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I learned a bit about what I liked in bed

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The next day she had a huge bruise on her neck, I was horrified but she wore her hair on the opposite side to show all her friends

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!

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