What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curiously comfortable
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? A month back
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looked hot with his muscles popping out on his back. I held on to his strong arms while we were walking. I felt a sense of comfort around him. We had hooked up once before, though I had no intentions of doing so. It was just casually meeting a friend, but after meeting him and talking to him, I fell for him. Then this continued.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning was involved at all. We had spoken about a lot of things in general about life and such. He is definitely more like a friend. When we met, he initiated the hookup by being a little touchy; he was coming closer while we were talking and getting drunk together. Then finally, when a good song started playing, I leaned forward, and we kissed. And it never stopped.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First, he went down on me and was looking at me with sexy bedroom eyes while he was eating me out. That turned me on more than anything. And then, I returned him the favor. He was clean and circumcised. If any ladies are reading this, you must be agreeing that when a guy moans because you are going down on him, it is the hottest thing on earth, and that is exactly what he did. He was so vocal during the sex, and it was so hot. But with this hookup, there was more to the sex than just sex. It was different. By the way he was kissing me the whole time, and he felt like home to me as he hugged me and was listening to my never ending stories.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Revenge / Getting even, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told a few friends. They reacted in a surprised manner. They didn’t expect that I would cheat on my guy and sleep with a guy I’ve just met.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was so full of passion.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I am considering cheating once again. Not for revenge nothing, just to have a good time for a change.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes now that I have done it, I feel like doing it more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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