Feeling Her Up



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny, Promiscuous, Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 140+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9

Feeling Her Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Samantha was a really hot chick I had fucked once at New Year’s and then we had lost touch. This year, we again ran into each other at another party. She looked good in a tight-fitting sparkly red mini dress, that accentuated those great legs and nice butt. She had a jawline that could cut through butter and great skin. We caught up and quickly decided we wanted to fuck again. I particularly remember pushing her against a wall, making out with tongue and having one of my hands hike up and feel her thigh. It was a super hot moment, and she was flushed

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at the club and took a cab to my apartment. We made out and felt each other up on the way there. I said hi to my roommates (they were smirking, the bastards), and we proceeded to go to my room

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We tore each other’s clothes off and she gave me a great blowjob, after which I proceeded to eat out, making her cum repeatedly. She’s a moaner for sure, and she proceeded to ride me hard, which made me cum. We did doggy style, anal, 69, all sorts of stuff. I even ate out her butt. Basically, we did everything and went right back into our usual rhythm. She’s usually a wild one too, so I handcuffed her before I proceeded to lick and suck her entire body. It was great!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I slept over and we woke up and spent most of the day in bed. We first smoked a bit and then, ofc, we continued to fuck each other in a lot of positions, and then went out and brought a third female friend back in and proceeded to have a threesome (But that’s another story). She properly left my house only on Sunday late afternoon, after fucking her so many times. It was a great weekend. After they left, my roommates said they’d heard us fucking all weekend and said I couldn’t have a girl stay over that long again. That sounded fair to me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommates. They rolled their eyes. I also told it to another couple of fuck buddies and they found it pretty hot.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was all really hot, and doing 69 with each other made me cum like few things ever have. Also, almost 2 full days of fucking was just heaven, especially with someone who knew what she was doing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? roommates giving me the talk

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, except that I should do sex marathons more often. I have the stamina and its a ton of fun

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She’s a really promiscuous girl and we got back in touch and have been having a fuck buddy relationship until now. She regularly tells me stories of the number of people she sleeps with (she’s pretty seductive and aggressive, so it’s quite a lot) and I too tell her a few stories. We’ve often had threesomes together and she’s almost always down for a fun time. I think we also know each other’s bodies very well by now, so we fit into a pretty good rhythm. She’s also not very clingy because she sleeps around so much. I’ve even jacked off to videos of her fucking other people. Overall, she’s just a great gal

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love fucking women who’ve had sex a lot with many people. They’re often the ones who are better at sex and are also pretty hot. Moreover, hearing their stories gets me off too.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. I know several sexually repressed people that get comfort from living their fantasies out in these stories

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