What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very open, love sex and new experiences
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
First Bumble Fuck
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met J on Bumble. He’s Puerto Rican, over 6 foot, glasses, cute with a little bit of a dad bod. We talked for a few days before he asked me on a date. We went out to eat, had great conversation. He walked me to my car after and we kissed, he grabbed my ass.
Next time we met we went to a Mexican restaurant and we ate pretty quickly. After he asked what else I wanted to do. I had a prior engagement to go to in about an hour so I told him there wasn’t anything else we really could do. He suggested we go to my car and listen to music. It wasn’t long before he was kissing me. He asked to go in the back seat. We did and I straddled him and we made out. Mostly everything was above the belt but eventually, we were both turned on and I stroked his hard on above his jeans and he played with me over my leggings. We discussed having sex but I didn’t want to because we were in such a public space. We made out a little more than I had to go so he kissed me goodbye and left.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a few weeks, we decided to meet again. We wanted to have sex this time so we planned for me to come over to his house during the day when his family wasn’t home (he’s my age and we both live with our families so we had to be strategic). I got to his house and I shit you not, it’s a mild hoarder house. There’s shit everywhere. I’m not the cleanest person so I tried to shrug it off but I was surprised he didn’t even attempt to clean up a little. We started in his living room and we watched a bit of Archer. Soon he was kissing me and started feeling me up. He asked if I wanted to go up to his room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We go to his room and it’s just as bad as the other rooms. He nonchalantly pushes a shit ton of random crap off his bed. At this point, I’m questioning what I’m doing here but I enjoy spending time with him and really wanted to get laid so I hang in there. We get on the bed and start making out. Quickly the clothes come off and we’re ready to go. I stop him and ask if he had a condom and he says yea…but I don’t have any STDs, do you? I say no and he goes for it. I’m not on birth control but I’ve used the pullout method hundreds of times and never gotten pregnant, so I said fuck it and let it happen. He had an average dick and knew how to use it decently so I came after about 10 minutes of fucking. He asked if I wanted to flip over and I agreed. After some more time in doggy he came- but let out THE most obnoxious loud noise I’ve ever heard. He flops over on his back, says he’s tired and proceeds to fall asleep in under 3 minutes. At this point I have mixed feelings…do I get up and leave? Wtf was that noise? But he’s only asleep for about 10 minutes and wakes up ready for round 2. He asks me to get his dick wet so I do, then we fuck again in missionary. He flips me over again and I almost cum again in doggy. It’s not long before he cums on my back, again with the crazy long grunt. He then flops down and again snoozes for a bit.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He woke up quickly and says he’s hungry. I agree and he suggests we go to chipotle. We get dressed and drive over. He buys me lunch.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I came and he bought me food after.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The dirty house, his grunting, he didn’t go down on me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope. Love casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome
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