First Time with Ed

by Avesland

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 70
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1 or 2

First Time With Ed

How long ago did this hookup happen? 50 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Knew Ed from work, became part of a tavern group. Shoot pool, drink beers, play poker etc

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I am & was in the closet. Most as I later found out were also in the closet. Most had a wife or girl friend. I would get horny for gay sex.
Ed would sometimes show up at my place for beer & conversation. Sometimes would stay the night. Saw his ass in his tight briefs, nice. I eventually stated perving him, during fantasies, having the hots for him. Not sure how he would react.
I planned for the next time he would be visiting.
He came over & we had some beers. We were feeling good, I was pretending.
I was setting facing him, & said I was horny. Would he mind if I jerked off? At the moment I was rubbing my crutch in front of him. Would it bother him? He said no, go for it.
I slid off my clothes & started to wank. After a few moments, he said if it was ok for him to do it. Yes!
He had a nice cut dick. I got up & turned around exposing my naked butt. Bent over to pick something up & gave him a good shot.
Then I went over & sat next to him. Leaned into & our lips met. We started to French & Feel & play.
We started to suck each other & came in our mouths. Later we fucked, the entire night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everything, Oral, Anal & Rimming. We did much after that day. He was an invited guest at my Anal Orgy, which I wrote about recently.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Told only one other at the time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One discreet fuck buddy.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fun

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Needed a longer session

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Need it

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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