First Tinder Date



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First tinder date

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 month

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I match with her on Tinder and we were messaging each other there until our conversation got sexual and we decided to go on a date, which was my first ever Tinder date.

She was a year younger than me, with an Italian background, black eyes and was studying art. I was nervous going on the date because I wanted to just have sex and not date her at all, but at the end I had nothing better to do that night so I went along!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met her at the bar and we started drinking and asking each other questions, which lead to some sexual and kinky questions. After the bar closed we started walking and I asked her if I can kiss her right there, which we did.

And then because of the alcohol, I guess, we decided to swim in a public pool at 11 pm during winter time! We got in our undies and went to the pool and started making out there. I asked her if she wanted to do her first skinny dipping right there and we took our undies off and swam naked.
When we got cold, though, and got out of the water and took an Uber to my place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She came to my place and we started undressing and making out immediately. She went down on me and gave me a really nice blow job, and I repaid the favour and went down on her until she stopped me.

We were dry humping for a while, and then I put a condom on and fucked her in missionary position, and as she told me before she was not that experienced so she was really tight! And I have a very thick penis, so I had a really hard time entering her. We changed position and I tried to get inside from behind in doggy style, but that didn’t help either. By all those pushings and trying, I lost the moment and went soft! So we decided to call it a night and went to sleep as I had work in the morning at 6 am.
After we woke up, we were still horny and started to have sex again, and this time with the help of my trusty morning wood I fit in her and we started having sex for a while with a good rhythm. However, I was going to be late for work so I quickly finished in a condom and left for work.
I was kinda disappointed that I couldn’t make her cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was gone after I came back from work but we manage to see each other again multiple times and still hooking up with each other in so many different places and fulfill each other’s fantasies and desires. We(I) decided to keep it just casual and based in enjoying each other’s body sexually and have the option to hook up/date other people. It wasn’t exactly what she wanted(she wanted a relationship) but she agrees to that and that’s still going on 🙂

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends, Everyone else was/is doing it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Most of my friends know about this situation, and they’re all wishing me luck haha

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finding a person with the same desire to explore together

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t want either of us to get emotionally attached and that makes me very sad if I know one day she’ll hurt if this thing stops

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, in this age casual sex is something everyone should enjoy

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Young people should have casual sex more often, it’s less drama and more pleasure. Have to chill a bit more and enjoy while they can. But there will be always feelings that get hurt

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good platform for people to share and learn

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!