by The Badger
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Office worker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Kate” is the wife of a friend of mine. Tall – about 5ft 10, firm curvy body with big boobs. She isn’t stunning, probably facially just a 5/10 has a great outgoing personality and just has something about her, like an aura that draws you to her and makes her more attractive in person than she looks in pictures. I had known her for many years as she lives very close to me and I have known her husband since school.
On the night in question, I was out drinking in a local pub with a friend and she was there with some female friends. I knew her husband was overseas on business for a couple of weeks. I had said hello to her but not really spoken to her much. When I got up to leave she came over and asked me to walk her home as it was late and she didn’t want to walk alone. There was nothing to suggest anything sexual at that point.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It is about a ten-minute walk from the pub to her house and then another 10 mins to my house. We just talked normally on the walk and when we got to her front door, I said goodbye. She just asked, “do you want to come in?”.
I was taken aback, she was drunker than me but not hammered. I just asked her what she meant – what for? She just giggled and rubbed my crotch and said something like “what do you think?”. I pushed her hand away and said I didn’t think it was a good idea, but she persisted. She pressed herself up against me and said she wanted me, she said I could do absolutely anything I wanted to her. I was totally taken aback, she was rubbing my crotch again and looked me straight in the eyes and said that I could have whatever I wanted. I asked what she wanted and she told me she wanted me to take her inside the house and do whatever I wanted to her she didn’t care what, I told her she was going to end up with a very sore arsehole if she kept offering herself to me like that. She took my hand and led me inside,
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I fucked her up the arse of course. There was a set of stairs just inside the front door, I pushed her face down onto the stairs, dragged her jeans and knickers down, got my cock out which was already rock hard and wiped some spit on it and set about her, it was hard to get in but once I did I fucked her frantically, she talked absolute filth to me until I came.
When we recovered, she led me upstairs and we showered together. She washed my cock and then started sucking it. When I was hard again she stood up and asked if I wanted her pussy, I just pushed her face first against the wall of the shower and took her arse again. It was slow this time and lasted a long time, there was no talking this time. When I came the same happened again – she soaped up and washed my cock in the shower and I started to get hard for the third time, sucked me again and asked me if I wanted her pussy but I took her arse again using hair conditioner as lube, she told me how sore her arse was as I fucked it again, I started to ramp up the pace and the harder I fucked her the dirtier she talked to me and she kept baiting me to fuck her harder, it got very intense at the end. I’ve never pounded anyone that hard.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked for a bit and then I left her and went back to my house. We didn’t talk about it. About a year later it happened again in a similar sort of way, again instigated by her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It felt amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? A bit of guilt.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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