What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I identify as gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Fucked balls deep by a hung, buff, Brazilian-exchange student (unprotected)
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a Brazilian exchange student at my school; his body was perfect: six pack abs, muscular quads, big-bubbly/ tight ass, huge biceps/arms, and an 8 in uc cock.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met on grindr (a gay hook-up app) and shortly after chatting he invited me back to his dorm.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started with some foreplay- making out and oral sex. He sucked on my dick and I gave him head in return. I was completely enchanted by him, his cock and his body (he had the hottest body of any other guys I have ever hooked up with). Intuitively, we knew we wanted to move onto anal sex. 98% on the time I use condoms, but I was lost in his eyes, at mercy of his beautifully crafted body and long/thick cock, as he slid his hung cock inside of me. (This was totally consensual btw). I would regret this foolish decision, but this was the best sex I have ever had (and I have fucking slept around, keep in mind #nofuckingshame). He nailed me harder than anyone else ever has, unmercifully pounding my ass. We met about half a dozen times more for the remainder of the semester, continuing to have unprotected sex (I’ve been tested several times since and I am all good btw lol)
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Immediately after the hook up he was super sweet. He even offered for me to stay the night and I did (I didn’t catch any feelies though lol). However, he wound up ignoring me on our small campus every time I came close to him but continued to hit me up for booty calls. I was slightly offended at first, especially since he was so deceptively kind; howoever, i wound up reciprocating his behavior, only acknowledging him over text and in the bedroom. It’s kind of strange though because I wound up sleeping over his dorm after most hook ups. When he left school though, he immediately unfriended me on facebook lol.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t say I wanted it but through my body language/ intuitive flow of the hook-up, he could tell I wanted the d
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? he didn’t say he consented, but he enthusiastically penetrated my ass over and over again:)
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one friend about this guy and he responded by calling him a tool haha. I’m not really out to many people in my life, so most of my friends/ family think that I am an innocent virgin, even though I’ve fucked around with ~100 guys (I digress lololol)
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His hot body and intense/hard pounding
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? his being a dick/ being deceptively kind.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? some guys are unnecessarily and foolishly be deceptive, but if they’re hot enough I don’t give a fuck and just have nothing to do with them outside of the bedroom lol (am I a terrible person?)
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? yes, but i wrote too much already to add more superfluous words haha
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think if it’s consensual and responsible then casual sex can be great; it feels amazing and is highly cathartic. I’d like to see people (both monogamous and promiscuous) to be respectful and open minded of others’ choices in the bedroom.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is an amazing project and I thank the creator of the website. It was cathartic to share and describe this experience and intriguing to read others!
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