Getting Rough in the Shower



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Getting rough in the shower

How long ago did this hookup happen? One week ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a tall Russian, who I met online. I wanted to hook-up with someone new and totally anonymous, but still I wanted a rapport with my booty call. Physically he’s not really my normal type, but he’s okay-looking and he kept a very light tone as we were chatting, so I didn’t feel any pressure. Exactly what I was hoping for.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We made arrangements to meet over the weekend. He had some loose plans, and since I wasn’t really taking it seriously (I could always go to my other options), we were just seeing how our schedules work out. We were able to find some free time in the afternoon.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Met him at a hotel, we chatted a little and then he started undressing me. I love shower foreplay, so we started there. It felt amazing having his hands all over me as warm water cascaded around us. He was kissing my neck while his hands were on my breasts, pinching my nipples. He played with my clit and got me really wet I had to have him inside. I dragged him back to bed, laid down and he pounded me. I have a tight vagina which he was crazy for, so it didn’t take him too long to cum. I was panting like crazy. I haven’t even caught my breath yet when I felt his fingers again on me, inside me, trying to get me to cum. And then his tongue started playing with my clit. He liked the feeling of my skin against him, so he just laid on top of me for a while, licking and biting my nipples, which kept me in a state of bliss. While we were resting, we would talk about random things, as I played with his dick. We went two more rounds… I sucked his cock and loved getting it hard. He loved rubbing his cock on my pussy. He fingered me, kissed my pussy, and licked my clit a lot. In the end, we took a shower to clean ourselves off but it turned into the most rough round for that afternoon…As we were finishing up, I ended up with my back against the wall as he was thoroughly kissing my lips and my nipples. His stubble chafed my skin a little, but in a good sexy way. He surprised me when his fingers were suddenly in me, hitting my g-spot with one stroke. I could barely move after that fingering session. Next thing I know, he’s lifted me up and his dick was inside me. I finally had to wash up quickly or we might never have finished!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He wants to hook up again, and this time an overnight. I’m open to it, but I don’t want to plan anything and just keep things impromptu. The sex was good, but not the best I’ve had, so I’m not attached to him as a booty call.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Spontaneous

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Could have had more powerful orgasm

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. I’ve always appreciated the role of casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great for people who can separate physical needs from emotional needs.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!

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