Going Raw With Tinder Date

by Tonia

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Going Raw With Tinder Date

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a very attractive man, I still miss his abs. We met on Tinder and for our first date, we went to a high-end bar. I thought he was a nice guy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He made it very clear that he intended to get dirty with me during the date. Afterward, he invited me to a hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got into the room, I got really wet, without any foreplay. We made out a little bit, removed all our clothes and he said he couldn’t wait any longer to feel me. Then, he laid me on the bed, put on a condom, kissed me and pushed his cock into my pussy. It was so much fun and I couldn’t stop moaning. His cock was able to reach the deepest and most sensitive part of my pussy. He came after not too long. We then got in the shower together. His cock, so hot and hard, was pushing against my pussy again. I couldn’t resist the tempation. I bent over and held onto the wall to support myself. He slid his bare cock into my pussy and fucked me until he pulled out and came on my back. His cum was all over me. He washed me and himself before we went to bed together.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued having sex for a while, like fuck buddies. Eventually, the sex got less hot. He started a serious relationship with another girl and I moved onto my next fling.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? He could be a good friend, if we didn’t have sex at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Satisfying sex, abs, raw penetration. Also, our offices are in the same area so we fuck after work pretty often.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He sometimes smokes. I don’t like the smell.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People may judge me. But I’m really excited by fucking new people. And I really like raw sex and creampies (given that the partner is free of STDs).

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