Location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Law enforcement
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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Good Cop, Bad Cop
How long ago did this hookup happen? Current
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I never thought I would be with someone old enough to be my father, but it’s happened- and it’s happening- and it’s HOT!
He is 48 years old (24 years my senior), a coworker, married, and has children. I prefer not knowing much else about him personally, there’s still a lot to learn about myself too. Before the hook-up started I always thought he was incredibly handsome, the kind of man you stare at. Tall, light-skinned, amazing rugged features.
We met at work (police department). We started talking after a case and the flirting and then the sexting began shortly after. He is amazing with words, and even more amazing when he bends me over and spreads me wide.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began about a month ago. There was a lot of sexting and I wanted to see if he was all talk. There is planning involved as we are both in relationships. He initiated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hookups started one morning after work. We had been sexting some pretty raunchy stuff for a week or so. He asked me to meet him, and after a few days of putting it off and flirting back I decided to meet him in the parking lot. I wanted to see if he was all talk, or if it was anything more. His car has dark tinted windows and had a windshield cover on it. From a small crack in the cover I remember looking out and seeing a coworker putting stuff in his car ready to go home. I sat there arms crossed and we made small talk. He touched my thigh, and at first I pulled away. After a few minutes he tried again and this time I didn’t pull away. I was more relaxed, I uncrossed my arms from my chest. He pulled out his dick and pulled me close to him. We began making out, and I reached down to feel his dick throbbing. I began to suck his dick and he began to finger me from behind. He felt amazing, just the right amount of force and pressure. During the first encounter I felt nothing but pleasure. It was wrong, but I didn’t feel like stopping. The next day we fucked in his car. To be honest I found it rather awkward, he’s really tall, the car is small, and I haven’t had sex in a car since I was a teenager. That’s the day I found out he was an ass man. I’ve never really been into anal, but then again all my sexual partners have been close in age to me (and therefore as I discovered, incredibly inexperienced). He knows how to make me comfortable with it. We do so much; anal especially. He eats my pussy amazingly well, and he is the first man I’ve really let that close to my ass. One day he asked me if he could lick my ass, and even though I never had experience with it before (and was so nervous) I told him “yes”, it’s honestly one of the best decisions I’ve made recently. You need to try it!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t talk about STDs. As for pregnancy he had a vasectomy.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I can’t really answer that. A friend knows about it, and also about my home life right now. He described it as me being young and needing to have fun. That’s the best answer I have. I guess also the sexiness of us being each others little secret. We can be at a crime scene and eyefucking each other and that in itself is a huge turn on.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are still hooking up. I don’t really have many expectations, I’m not expecting him to leave his family or really do much for me. It’s just hot sex.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One of my other coworkers knows about it. I tell him “hey, I saw him today” kind of stuff. I don’t divulge too much information. He makes jokes about the age difference a lot, but thinks the dude is totally awesome for it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really. The relationship thing sometimes makes me think, but we are both grown adults and we both came to this decision.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best is the physical way he makes me feel. The worst is having to be so secretive.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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