What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New Jersey
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? A month
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this guy when I changed gyms and started going to one closer to my house. He is an athletic, black man who is very friendly. We became friends and he would help me work out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We became friendly and after one of the workouts, I asked if he wanted to grab a cup of coffee. We hung out for a bit and ended up leaving and going to my house with no intention of hooking up.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were in the house just talking when he walked over, grabbed my ass, and told me it was as great as he thought it was. I wanted to resist but it turned me on so much that I leaned in and we kissed. We went at each other at a rapid pace and I pulled his shorts down and started sucking him. He was absolutely huge and I felt so sexy being on my knees in front of him. He pulled my clothes off and bent me over the couch and started fucking me hard and fast. He grabbed my tits, pushed deep inside me and came. When he pulled out he asked to see the rest of the house and walked upstairs. I followed and he layed on my bed and told me to get on top. He was still rock hard and I climbed on him and we fucked for a long time. I came at least twice before he came inside me again. Afterward, we talked for a little while before he got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt kind of regretful about it when my husband came home that night. I also felt like a porn cliche after thinking about being a married white woman getting fucked by a big black cock.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have not told anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? It was the first and only time I have ever cheated on anyone and I feel a lot of guilt.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Feeling like a porn star riding a huge black cock.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I now fantasize about cheating.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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