What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lost count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was buff. A personal trainer who also co-owned the gym he worked at with a mutual friend. I knew him through that mutual friend (who was simultaneously one of my fuck-buddies). He was subsequently introduced in a booty call later on and we became fuck-buddies. Tall and tanned, his rock hard chest and abs were to die for; he has a strong grip that matched the visuals his massive biceps afforded. Might need more leg days, but his junk probably gets a favourable frame thanks to that.
I have hooked up with him before, but I didn’t know him very well aside from the fact that he did great sex. I liked what I saw, so I was rather excited about the sex that was to come (the first time).
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began in the gym. Being his fuck-buddy, he gave me free membership at the gym and offered free private sessions at his convenience. I was horny, and was also looking to workout, so I called him up and we arranged a session and some fucking right after. He agreed and cleared out the gym for us that day.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out with a relatively tame workout regime that mostly focused on the core. His hands got frisky, reaching to finger me as I did my crunches. That actually made me squint after enough times, and by that point we ditched the workout and went straight to the fucking which we creatively merged into the various exercise machines.
Like hanging on a pull up bar while he vigorously fingered me. Or spreading my legs on that hip abductor machine while he jerks off beside me. And the hard fucking as I rode him to substitute core workouts.
Throughout it all, he was acting like a fitness coach, guiding me as if he were coaching. He would say things like “you must swing your hips wider!” as I rode. It was rather amusing, but also immensely sexy since I got a full penetration from that. It only ended when we both ran out of steam. Which for him, still took quite a while regardless since he had amazing stamina.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Legs were wobbly already right after that. Even more weak the next day though I could still power through it. I rather enjoyed that sort of fatigue though, so I didn’t mind. Definitely looked forward to the subsequent sessions after and I haven’t gotten out of it just yet.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Other fuck-buddies and close friends. They found the encounter a hilarious one for the various antics we had with the different fitness machines.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The hard fucking that left me walking funny.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it didn’t last longer.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The gym was a mess when we were done. Had to clean up with him.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex had been a way to establish connections for me. It allowed me various benefits, both social and commercial, and also the extreme pleasure. Numerous incentives that had made my life a whole lot more enjoyable. I definitely hope society can be more open and receptive to it and not grown upon it so much.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Seems like a cool idea!
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