What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Tutor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Women: 4 Men: I never counted.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 7; Unfortunately I wrote the pseudonym in different ways: craves-for-semen, craves_for_semen, craving-for semen
He made me more Gay
How long ago did this hookup happen? ca. 2 Months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Asian gay man, 29 years old. A business student. He has a very firm and slim body. He must work out at some gym. Dark skin, black hair.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A usual Gaydar hook up. He came to my house when my wife was away. Before he came, I suspected that we had hooked up about a year ago. This turned out to be true and he recognized me when he came in. He was very friendly. I wondered why he wanted to have sex with me because I am certainly not as attractive as he is. He can certainly find better men.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went straight to the bedroom and I undressed. I pulled down his pants to suck his cock. The cock was bigger than I had remembered, which was, of course, a pleasant surprise. It was a bit awkward that he did not want to take off his shirt at first. I love touching and kissing his body because it feels so nice and firm. He is muscular and has soft skin, it feels great. His arse just looks and feels so sexy. I have never rimmed a guy before. I wanted to rim him but was afraid that he would take it as a cue that I wanted to fuck him.
I was also a disappointed that he did not want to tongue kiss. I am pretty sure we had done that last time. We only briefly touched each other’s lips. But honestly, I was pretty happy that he was doing sex with me anyway so I should not complain.
I sucked his cock and he must have gotten into it. He grabbed my cock and sucked it, which surprised me a bit because he hadn’t done that last time. He finally took off his shirt and I could see why he didn’t want to do it at first: He had some big spots on his chest, but that was just a color change on his body, not warts or pimples. It did not deter me from kissing and licking his nipples.
I remembered how happily he had jumped at the opportunity to fuck me last time, so I offered again. Unfortunately, he wanted to do me doggy-style. A number of Asians have chosen to let me ride them or to do it missionary. I would have loved to have a more intimate position with him.
But anyway, I turned around, he teased my hole for a little bit and then happily pumped away into my arsehole. I love to drink semen, but I did not tell him to stop at any point because I could feel how much he was enjoying himself fucking me.
Then came this magical moment when he stopped pumping me and just laid on me. We were laying there for a while on our stomachs, he on top of me with his penis still inside my arse. I knew that he had cum. It was the most affectionate moment in all my hook ups with men. we were not talking, just feeling our bodies. I awkwardly reached with my hand to feel his wonderful firm body. There was not much more I could do from my position from underneath him. But I felt truly happy with my secret sex life at that moment and I think I just had turned a bit more gay. It was just beautiful.
When he finally got up to pull off the condom, I told him that I needed to suck his cock again hoping that there would be some semen left that I could swallow. He let me lick and kiss his penis for a bit before we parted our ways. He only gave me a hug on the way out. I would have appreciated a kiss so much.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He told me I could text him to meet up again. I contacted him again via Gaydar, but he has not replied. I am too shy to send out a text message on his phone. I guess that I will not see him again, which may be a good thing because otherwise, I may fall in love with him, who knows? That guy has made me more gay than I already was just by lying on top of me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That magical moment when he lay on top of me after he was done.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he didn’t want to kiss this time and that I didn’t get to drink much semen.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hook up made me feel more gay. I usually do not want to kiss. This time I missed kissing my partner.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I feel sad that I need to hook up in secret and cannot tell my wife about it. But sex with men is so good, I need to do this.
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