He’s My Housemate



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

He’s My Housemate

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last month

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, fit, lean, French guy. I don’t know him that well, as he moved into my house share few months ago. I thought he was quite lovely when we interviewed him before moving in and I was taken by him as he’s quite charismatic.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One afternoon we spoke about dating, and this conversation quickly got into personal questions, like how many times I would cum a night with my vibrator. That night we continued the conversation by text, and it went to fuck-buddies! He told me to come to his room but I could not as it was not the nbest time of the month for me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? A few weeks after the first text conversation we were texting again. He brought it up again, and I was quite keen. He asked me to come to his room, I thought for a while then went. I was nervous as he was my first since my divorce but he does not know this. He started my rubbing me all over my body. He then started o finger me and this felt SO good! He then went down on me and was sucking my pussy furiously! He flipped me over and was sucking and fingering me from behind. I started to quiver and I came. I grabbed onto his cock and started to jerk him off! He asked me what I wanted next and I said put it in! OMG! He filled me with his huge cock, and after thrusting in me he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we both came, it was a bit awkward, as we both never expected that. We were laughing a little, very nervously. My legs were not working so I just laid in his bed a while. We spoke a little, about what had just happened. I then left his room, and tiptoed to my own bedroom. Next morning we spoke about it and what we both liked and disliked.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to him about it straight after

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both enjoyed it and decided it would happen again…

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Didn’t last as long as I had hoped.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be enjoyable as long as there is consent on both parties and no one has any feelings involved

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love the stories

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