How It Started With Wife’s Friend



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Electrician
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

How It Started With Wife’s Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? L is average height, jet black long hair, nice set of C or D tits, 43 and a long time friend of my wife. She got married late in life to a guy that’s been divorced twice and works when he chooses for a friend’s pest control company. He stays drunk and since we’ve known him, he’s packed on more weight. L had 3 kids soon after they got married. Number 3 was a surprise so she had her tubes tied. She’s got a curvy body and has an amazing ass that looks great in jeans.

Our kids are grown and in college. My wife knows L is going through a rough time and their money is tight so she invites her and the kids over often for dinner. My wife told me L is stressed over money, bills and L admitted her husband’s been impotent for over a year now and refuses to try pills. Due to their budget, L wears old cloths she’s had for a long time. Mostly stuff from the 90’s like tight low rise jeans and t-shirts. I think it’s a style her body can rock!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? L and the kids were having dinner at our house one rainy afternoon. Soon after they left, she called my wife in a panic. L drives an old minivan and it broke down on the highway. She attempted to call her husband but he was at a friend’s house passed out drunk. I picked them up and took them home. I called my wife to tell her everyone was OK and she could hear L in the background complaining about her dead beat husband. She wanted to confront him but I insisted she stay put for the night. My wife suggested I stay until she’s calm. She put the kids to bed then we sat to talk. She hadn’t changed clothes and her old, worn thin & light colored t-shirt was wet. She was wearing a sheer lace bra and both were transparent and clinging to her. She looked like she was in a wet t-shirt contest and her nipples were poking out. I listened as she rambled. She noticed me looking at her boobs. She looked down and said, “Oh! I’m so sorry!” I told her she looked good then we started kissing. I was squeezing her tits and she was rubbing my crotch. Things got heated fast and we paused to discuss if we should continue. I suggested oral only and she grabbed my hand and we went to her bedroom and she quietly closed the door.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She gave me a wet sloppy blow-job and I came quickly. Surprisingly, she swallowed. She had the darkest, wildest and thickest bush I’d ever seen. I was in a little shock but turned on too. I guess not having sex she didn’t have a reason to trim. I still went down on her and noticed she was biting her lip & grabbing the mattress. She was trying to be quiet but her whimpers had got me hard again. She had an orgasm and when she finished I stood up. I was standing between her legs with my hard cock aimed at her dripping wet pussy. She said, “Thank you so much.” Her eyes were fixed on my hard cock. There was a moment of silence then she said, “We’ve gone this far. I won’t tell if you don’t.” I didn’t hesitate and pushed my cock inside her wet warm pussy. Even though this was our first time having sex, we had great rhythm. I unloaded inside her then left afterward.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When I got home, my wife was on the phone with L. At first I thought L called to confess but she was telling my wife how grateful she was for me helping her and the kids tonight. She told my wife I was a wonderful listener and patient while she ranted. She was thankful I stayed till she calmed down because she was about to get a neighbor to drive her to her husband and fight with him. Now she’s calm.

That’s how it all started.

L and I have sex on regular basis now. I’m a self-employed with flexible hours. Sometimes I get busy and need help. L’s mom has agreed to help watch kids while she helps me on occasion. This works out good because on days L helps me, her mom comes by to pick up the kids. Then she has to get her husband up and out of the house to work. Most of my jobs are local. After she’s done all of that, she’ll send me a text and I take a break from my job to pick her up. We normally have sex before we leave her house.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing her amazing tits and wild bush for the first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I felt a little bad at first but L kept thanking me for being a friend she can ‘clear her mind’ with. We both agree it’s just sex. L loves her husband and would never leave or divorce. Same for me. It’s not L’s fault he can’t get it up anymore. I’m just helping a friend.

I’ve been faithful my entire marriage until this point. At first we didn’t expect it to become routine but it has. I’ve read numerous articles and secret confessions and this is a common situation. A Husband having sex with one of the wife’s close friends. It’s more common than I expected. The reasons vary but the result is the same. Both people are just having sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Once we started having sex on a regular basis, she got rid of the ‘wild bush’ entirely. I asked her not to but in her mind it was embarrassing.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Close friends help each other. Society should me more accepting of friends having sex. L told me she would never have sex with anyone else if we stopped. She loves having sex with me because we are good friends. What if I wasn’t willing to help ‘clear her mind’? My wife and I still have a strong marriage and active sex life. L and I have sex a couple of times per month.

If more people would be open and share their experiences. I think society would be shocked at how many people are having casual sex but are remaining silent.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I found this site while surfing the web for similar stories as mine. I think it’s a good idea.

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