It’s Been a While

by fitch

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Philippines
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10?
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

It’s Been a While

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? filipino guy with a lean body. he’s a sex friend. yes. From a mutual friend before. I like him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Haven’t had sex for a month and I texted him I wanna have sex and after an hour he said I could come over his place at that moment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? oral and vaginal. Missionary style. It was really good. we both missed it. he’s always a good sex for me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? yep. yes.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom. yes before

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I miss sex that’s all

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? nope

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we talked for a while. i feel good. I really like him. Like, emotionally. We’ve been hooking up for almost a year. But I want us to stay friends.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 2 of my friends. The usual. They know abt my sex life so it’s not that new to them.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? a little yes. It might be another reason to be attached to him huhu

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the best thing is that i finally had sex after a month it was a steamy hot sex and the worst is we only got a few time. nothin really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? emotional attachment on fuck buddies is fucked up. But I love sex. Can’t do anything abt it tho

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