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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 5’6, with short brown hair and brown eyes. He had well kept facial hair. He had a medium build and a nice smile. I had met him on Tinder and we talked on there for a few days before I met up with him for coffee. We got along pretty well, but I knew that I didn’t like him enough to want anything serious. He was interesting to talk to and we laughed a lot when we spent time together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had hooked up a few times before this, though he was the one that instigated it. I lived in a shared dorm room, but on Thursdays and Fridays, my roommate would not be there. On one Friday morning, he asked if I was free and I was.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came up to my room in khaki colored skinny jeans and a polo: his work outfit. (He interned at an engineering company and wore semi-casual work attire). He dropped the backpack he had strapped to his back and began kissing me. I pulled him closer and we made out for a few minutes. He asked me which bed was mine before pushing me onto it. He took my shirt off and kissed me from my neck to my breasts, nibbling a few spots on the way down. He pulled my leggings off and began to rub my clit. He unbuttoned his pants which were pretty tight now that his cock was rock hard. He took his pants off and wasn’t wearing any underwear. I was surprised. He put a condom on and then he began to rub the tip against my pussy before he slid it in. He pounded into me, first on top and then from the back. The whole time, I was gripping my sheets in pleasure but trying to stay quiet since the dorm walls are thin. He told me to scream out if that’s what I want to do. He told me to not think about everyone else and to just enjoy the moment. He slapped my ass enough times to leave a red mark and pulled out before he came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After he cleaned up he pulled out a different pair of pants and some boxers from his backpack. He told me the skinny jeans were just for meeting up with me and we both laughed. We continued to meet up and hook up for a while after that. We had a good time and every hook up with him was a good experience. I still have friendly feelings for him. Even though we don’t hook up anymore, I would again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends including my best friend who I consider my sexual “devil on my shoulder.” The general reaction was positive.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fun and no one got hurt or too attached
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think if you want to do it, you should have (safe) sex. Sexuality is so personal and intimate. It should be explored properly and thoroughly. It can reveal a lot about you as an individual.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a really cool idea, and I think it should me a more widely known project.
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