Lighting the Match

by Rose
Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic

Location: Los Angeles, CA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Lighting the Match

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tony was a friend of mine from high school. We met my senior year. He is eight months younger than me, so he was a junior when we met. We had a health and safety class together. He sat behind me. He was a little shorter than me, Mexican, dark, cute, skater boy. When we met, I had a boyfriend but was still a virgin. We got to talking and became fast friends. Soon after, he got a girlfriend. And not long after that he lost his virginity to her. Needless to say he was excited and told me everything. He was incredibly sexually active with her. They did it all the time. She too went to our high school. She was a junior as well. I met her and thought she was nice. At first she was territorial, but soon found out I had a boyfriend, so she relaxed around me. I too started having sex with my boyfriend and I would tell Tony all about it. As the months went by, of course drama with our respective partners would arise, and Tony and I felt comfortable with each other that we would go to each other for advice or to vent. Towards the end of the school year, things got more tense. My graduation was imminent and Tony was realizing that I would be off to college soon. He started to realize he desired me, or at least found me attractive. I just saw him as a little brother, but there was no denying that there was something sexy about him. I knew he was an insatiable guy, and that’s a turn-on.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in my sophomore year at college. Winter break. My boyfriend had gone to Australia for the winter to be with family, leaving me behind. I was all alone in our apartment. My little sister was keeping me company, but I soon grew tired of watching a three year old. I took her home. On my way over there, I realized I didn’t want to stay at my parent’s house, but I also didn’t want to go home to an empty apartment. My boyfriend was due to come back from Australia in three days. I didn’t want to be alone. I wanted to have fun. So I decided to call Tony to see if he wanted to hang out. I booked a room for the night at a beachside hotel in Santa Monica, not far from the Pier. I asked Tony to meet me there and to pack an overnight bag. I got a room with two beds. He was waiting for me in the lobby. We checked in, dropped off our stuff, and went out to the Pier. We caught up and had fun. He had broken up with his girlfriend a few months before. After we had dinner, we went to the movies. By the time we got out, it was late and cold by the ocean. We walked back to the hotel and took turns warming up in the shower. We had on the complementary bathrobes. Tony started watching TV. I sat next to him. On his bed. I asked him if I could scoot in closer cuz I was still cold. He said yes. There was so much sexual tension there, in that moment, it became unbearable. So I asked him, “Can I kiss you?” He immediately said yes, put his hand around my neck and kissed me deeply.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The sexual tension was like gas in the air, and our kiss was like we lit a match. We exploded in passion. We undid each other’s robes so it was easy to be naked. I went down on him, he was so big. Bigger than my boyfriend. Then he pulled out a condom and we started having sex. He was really good at it, the entire time he was making out with me. We felt each other everywhere and I got pretty loud. He had to shush me a couple of times. When it became apparent I couldn’t quiet down, he buried my face in a pillow and rode me doggy style. He lasted much longer than I was used to with my boyfriend. So long I was impressed, and I got dry, so it started to hurt a little. At last he came. He rested for a bit, and we caught our breath. He told me he had wanted to fuck me since high school. I was surprised, because he had a girlfriend at the time. But he told me he always liked me, he had always found me attractive. After a few minutes he asked if I wanted to go again. I was surprised by his stamina. We went again, and he came again. Then we each fell asleep in our own beds.

The next morning we rose early to walk on the beach and take in the sights. We went back to the hotel and I showered. When I got out, he was listening to music. I laid down on my bed. He pounced on me and asked me if he could have sex with me again. We did. We did doggy style this time. He lasted a long time again. When he was done, he kissed me and asked if we could hook up on other occasions. I had planned for this to be a “get it out of your system” thing, but I liked him. I liked how well we fit together. I liked how he lasted long and how he kissed me during the sex and how big he was and how considerate he was. So I said we should definitely hook up again when my boyfriend is out of town again. And we have.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He happened to have a ton of condoms with him. We didn’t discuss STI history, just how many partners we’ve had.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to explore the sexual tension that Tony and I had. I’ve never felt this explosive about anyone else. Lust. I wanted to give in to it. It’s a great thing to know you’re wanted, and to want the person who wants you. It’s hot.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs, no alcohol.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I went back to my regular routine with my boyfriend. He returned from Australia. I loved my boyfriend. Love is one thing, lust is another. Not long after that, my boyfriend and I agreed to an open relationship. I hooked up with Tony once more when my boyfriend went to San Francisco. Since then, my boyfriend and I split, and I haven’t seen Tony since, but we still keep in touch, and hooking up again is always up in the air. Just waiting for the opportune moment. Tony and I still have that tension, pent up and just waiting for the right time to explode.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone. That getaway was naughty, yet special. It is one of my most precious memories.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was definitely consensual and wanted for both of us. We had wanted it for a very long time.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not regret this hookup. It was perfect. It was amazing. And it was hot. One of the best nights of my life.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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