Lonely Boy

by Zinator

Gender: Female
Age: 36
Race/ethnicity: white
Current location: Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Talent Manager
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Lonely Boy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Ongoing the last 6 months. Last time was 3 weeks ago.

How would you best classify this hookup? I suppose it was a booty call.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, athletic, collar-bone length brown hair, amazing blue eyes, a little facial hair that was oh so soft to the touch. Intoxicating smile and strong arms. 

Met him about 6 months ago, we texted and talked off/on for a few days when I met back up with him casually at a bar. The night I met him I saw him from a distance and he was singing one of my favorite songs. I was already in awe of him, but thought he was married. No big deal, cool guy. His “wife” started talking to me, trying to get me to sing with him but I passed. Round 2 he sings and low and behold another of my favorite songs. Later on his  “wife” said she has to leave and she pawned him off on all of us. Come to find out he was just on a second date. So much to say but it would take forever… But… That is where it all began.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was a Tuesday morning, after a couple of days of not talking, because at this point I really couldn’t give 2 hoots about the guy. He was funny and we could just talk and talk, but my mind wasn’t about him at all. He sent me a message, and we chatted back and forth for a bit. He asked if I was going out that night, and I was thinking about it. Later on I decided yes I would. I was going to meet my friend for drinks till about 11. Told him I was going. He came strolling in over to our table. He has such a sheepish adorable grin, with his long locks softly falling around his face. Anyways I was extremely nervous around him, and  I could not breathe. We wouldn’t let him so he stood as he talked to us. Later some of his friends showed up so he sat with them. His seat faced me, and made me extremely nervous. We would occasionally lock eyes and smile at each other. I could feel the intensity flowing thru my body. He came back around to our table a couple of times, but once 11 hit he glanced my way because it was time for me to leave. My friend and I headed for the door, but I wanted to say bye…. As I said my goodbyes the whole table told me to stay! So I did. I sat next to him where I felt my heart was going to beat out of my chest. My breathing got extremely heavy sitting next to him. We both headed to the restroom at the same time chatting, and he said we had something there. The chemistry was out of this world. We were going to blow fuses.

Fast forward end of the night I get in my car. I barely said bye. I texted him I was in my car. He quickly came outside and got in my car. We talked then I drive him over to his car. Talking about life, music, and whatever topic came up. His phone rang, one of his buddies. He picked up. As he spoke to him I couldn’t help but lean over and start kissing his neck. My breathing increased heavily as I kissed his neck, nibbled on his ear, and rubbed the back of his neck and shoulders. I couldn’t help but place my hand on his crotch as I ripped open his zipper so I could taste it. I’m not this kind of girl, but this guy turned me on like no one ever has in my lifetime. 

He got turned on and grabbed my face, thrusting his tongue in my mouth. I felt I could just orgasm at his touch. This went on for a bit, then we talked, and then happened again. He asked me to sit on it after he felt my wet, tight, lady parts. I didn’t, but I did end up at his apartment. It was so erotic, from picking me up and putting me on his kitchen counter to slamming me up against the door as we made out and he touched my lady parts. I couldn’t breathe. This man and my chemistry was at an all time high. I ended up leaving before it escalated to sex, but omg, I wanted to touch myself because this feeling was unreal. 

Let me tell you, he had me all aroused on a intellectual level, physical, and emotional level. This guy…. Ahhhh. Hook, line, and sinker…. Though I’m leaving details out about how he definitely was trying to hook up with my friend right after and of course my texting could have been a little less!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Soooo, the next week we spoke on the phone, and I noticed he was all flirty when we talked. I’d say something sweet and he would kind of giggle or say that was cute. All I know he had a hard on and we both got off in the phone. Which made me crave to kiss him even more. Weeks went by, and he gave me the could shoulder or just wouldn’t speak to me. Maybe a text here or there, but remember I was being a girl and texted too much. Remember some details about our lives are better left out of this.

Weeks later, he sent me a message replying to a joke. Then he wrote I hope you’re good. We texted off and on, then he called. He told me he had been seeing someone, but he fantasized about me. He said I would say something sweet and it turned him on. Then a week went by, and I went to his place.

At his place… We laid in bed as he sang to me, we talked, and then I gave him massage. You could tell his dick was enlarging as I rubbed his back. He was getting restless as he turned over, I pulled down his pants and sucked on his cock like no other. It was perfect how it fit in my mouth and he tasted delightful. He loved every minute of it. I definitely was shy and was scared to be completely naked with him. He squeezed me tightly, and his voice deepened as I started to slide down on his cock with my wet vagina. His cock and my vagina fit perfectly together. It makes me tremble thinking about it. His cock gets fatter at the base and it just makes me crazy when I take it all in. He grabbed my shoulders as I
rocked on his cock, back and forth, up and down. His voice, sexy, husky, and a turn on…. Kept saying stay with me… I don’t remember everything because we felt good together and I was having an out of body experience. 

Since that first sexual night we had sex I think 8 times. I orgasmed everytime. One night even twice. We would talk about different stuff, sing, and of course he would always ask why him? What did I see in him? I saw this guy who seemed oh so put together, but lonely. I was drawn to him. He made me laugh, smile, and in a sense he brought out somethings in me he will never know about. 

Again, we had sex about 8 times.
Doggy-style, backwards cowgirl, regular riding. Lots of oral for both of us. He said he loved eating my sweet tight lady part. He had fantasized about it. He said it’s like we were meant to be together sexually by how we fit. He did fantasize about being together by doing anal and he did choke me a little but that was towards the end of us seeing each other. I would have done anything with him, I liked being with him. The last couple of times he had said he missed me, he wanted to see me, but the  was weird. We cuddled a lot more and he would make me undress and he touched me why we cuddled. He made my body tremble where I couldn’t stand it. Ugh.

He was a good lover but definitely needed to learn the skill of being a friend as well. So that made me the booty call and he said a lot of bull that I believed because I suppose due to intoxication!! Again, I could have helped it not being so clingy texting. All I wanted was to have a friend as well. 🙂

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. I’m clean and never had anything. 

He says he is clean.

He told me for the record he wasn’t fucking anyone else.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Like I said, I was drawn to him. Something about me lit up when I met him and after that first night where we kissed, it was over for me. I craved to feel him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He drank….. I had drinks once where it was a lot.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? it happened. I felt weird, but wanted him again. It was reckless, irresponsible, but satisfying.

Well expectations were good for a bit, then when he would I guess go date people then I felt ignored. That’s when I knew I was nothing more than a booty call. 

I wish him well. I still have feelings because I haven’t spoken to him for 3 weeks. The last time was different. He had a dark side. It was sexy, scary, and erotic. When I last saw him we hugged for at least a minute. I felt in his hug he needed that and I ache to feel that again. He jumped on top of me and said what I did was sweet, he voice deepened and it went all over me. When I left that early morning I knew it was over. He has a lot going on. Of course persistent me keeps bugging him. Stupid.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? my Bff. She gets it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes and no. Yes because when we first met we could talk and chat. I could have had a real good friend to kick it with occasionally. Now I’m not sure about anything.

No, because being with him sexually, laying in bed cuddling, or talking to him as he ate was always fun. He made me laugh, he called me out on my shit, made me realize things deep within me, and seriously told me to never lose my spirit. He admired that about me, and not to let anyone break it away from me.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think I pretty much already summed it up up above. Worst: I miss him now that we haven’t spoken.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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