Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Baptised a catholic, don’t follow it though
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
How would you best classify this hookup? Booty call
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s an absolute sex god. He exuded sex appeal from his head to his toes. You could tell he’d been around, but you knew he was picky… he wouldn’t downgrade for sex, he would only sleep/continue sleeping with the best. He was lean, six pack, blue eyes, short cropped hair. I knew his name – he was the brother of an old friend of my brothers, but the first time I spoke to him was when I had to serve him at the cafe I worked at. He was mates with the head chef, who was my neighbour… that’s how he got my number.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My neighbour (the head chef) messaged me and said, “I’ve got a solution for your mood swings. Give Jesse a message, I’m sure you two will work it out amongst yourselves.” So, I messaged Jesse because what would a sex god want with a small town chick? We banged that night. He lived just around the corner.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time we hooked up, we just had sex and I gave him a blow job. That’s when he knew I was worth keeping around I guess. He was off the chain, oh my god. He was more intense than I’ve ever had before. It was like we were long lost lovers who have been separated against our will and finally reunited. That night, we talked about a lot of things. I stayed the night and he walked me home early next morning.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was on the pill. We started off using a condom, but we quickly ditched it.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I needed the stress, anxiety and depression to be fucked out of me.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Two or so glasses of wine. Not enough to blame it for anything.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t feel anything about it. After that hook up, we slept with each other once a month for 7 months. I never felt anything for him, because all I knew about him was how he liked me to suck his dick, and how he liked me to ride him. I can’t have feelings for a guy when I know nothing about him.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told all my girlfriends, the sex was mindblowing, it was totally brag worthy. He kept it tight lipped though.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yeah, we both wanted it.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the sex. He boosted my confidence, he made me feel like I was the sexiest, best lookin chick around, even when I’d only be wearing tracksuit pants, no make up and a ratty singlet. It did make me feel like sex lost its meaning, which in itself was sad. It took a lot of time for me to regain meaning in sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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