What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? South Carolina
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight but occasionally get an itch
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1


What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about my age, black, a little taller than me, and was in great shape. I’ve met up with him before.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started with a few morning texts that led to availability at lunch. I got to the hotel first and got a room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I have never been a bottom before, but I knew if I was going to try, then this is who I wanted to try it with. I’d had my first experience with this same guy and knew he wanted more. I was working that day, but from the early morning texts, I got pretty excited and wore a pair of panties. It was nothing crazy just some sexy cotton cheekies under my pants. I arrived in the room and made sure I looked okay, then got on the bed and took my pants off. I was lying on the bed in my undies until I heard him arrive and come inside. He acted casual as usual and started off by kissing my ass and rubbing his hands all over my body. I got up on my knees and leaned over as he pulled my panties down my legs. I gasped. That feeling was incredible. I felt ready knowing what was to come and was anxious about how it was going to go. He lubed up and rubbed his fingers inside me. Then, he got on the bed and slowly entered me. It hurt a lot when he first got in, but as we progressed, it got easier and finally pleasurable. He was all the way in and I couldn’t get enough; it was not too rough, but I could feel his balls hitting my ass cheeks. He was holding on tight and fucking me. What I had imagined was coming true, and it was unreal. He was hitting the right spots as I found myself getting a weird aroused feeling and pressure inside, I exploded cum all over the bed and was pretty vocal about my pleasure. That’s about all the details I could share about what happened, but after we were done, I hopped in the shower, said goodbye, went back to work, and that was it. I still regret not taking his load in my mouth, but overall my first time being a bottom was an awesome experience and it was with a cute black guy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I regretted it a little after it happened, but over time that has gone away. Now, it’s just a memory I can go back to and enjoy, knowing I tried it and honestly liked it a lot.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, but I wish I could tell. I would get so horny like I am now writing this.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His dominance and big dick.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The regret I felt after.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? 100%

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site

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