What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? D.C.
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4


How long ago did this hookup happen? Ongoing

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mario is a couple years older than me. We have hooked up several times now. He is Latino, about 5’8″, a great kisser and cock sucker. He’s got a great ass and a nice long (9″) but not too thick cock. He’s also HIV positive (undetectable).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We planned to get together on Grnder where we’ve drifted too after CraigsList. We met at his place as always and started making out in the elevator.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we got to his place, we excused ourselves to “prepare.” When we came back to his living room, he poured us a couple of glasses of wine and kept making out for about 15 minutes. We then started getting naked and kissing each other all over. We proceeded to his bed and engaged in 69 for a few minutes. Both of our cocks were completely hard when I turned him around and started rimming him. I then fingered his lubed up ass and had him moaning for my cock. I was rubbing my cock against his ass, teasing him. He told me his condoms were inside the bedside table. I didn’t reach for the but slid my cock inside him as it was feeling so hot. He reminded me that he was HIV positive but undetectable. I told him I wanted to be inside him raw. I kept thrusting harder and harder inside him for about 10 minutes until I came. It was the hottest sex we had had together but we weren’t done. I turned him over and kissed him and felt his hard cock rubbing against mine. I moved down on him and started socking his balls and his cock. Before he could cum, I traded his cock for his mouth and started kissing him again, feeling his cock against mine. I then slid his cock under me and started teasing it with my ass. In about a minute, I mounted him Cowboy style and bareback. I rode him for several minutes. He asked me a couple of times if I wanted him to put a condom on. I kept saying I don’t want to stop. Finally, he told me he was about to cum and he came deep inside me. It was incredible and I hope we continue to hook up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed, finished our wine, and I left as we always do.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave a clear ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I had bareback top and bottom sex with an HIV positive. I know undetectable = untransmittable but he’s been HIV positive the entire we’ve hooked up and only told me after the first couple of times we had sex so I’m hoping he’s right about being undetectable. But he was strongly urging the condoms. I will be getting tested in 3 months.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being both a top and bottom.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Potential exposure to HIV.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was very satisfying

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I hope I continue getting naked with Mario. I’ve been with him more times than any other man and I always have a great time with him.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place to post our stories.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!