Meeting Up With My Married Lover



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Kfar Tavor, Israel
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Meeting Up With My Married Lover

How long ago did this hookup happen? Around 6 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is married, happily, and he is 53. He is a lovely, fit man with a hard, muscled body, not muscle-bound though, just amazing. He has a lot of body hair which is a complete turn on. I met him through the Ashley Madison site. We corresponded for a week and then met up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We arranged to meet at the BnB we had met at the week before, this was the second time we met up and since then we have met weekly.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Meeting at the bnb for the second time, we walked into the bedroom. He walked up to me and started kissing me softly. Holding me, he felt my nipples through my bra and then took it off, his hands on my tits. I took his top off and slid my hands over his amazingly hairy chest. We laid down on the bed and he continued to touch me; sucking my nipples, squeezing my tits, sliding his hands over my body and rubbing between my legs gently. He peeled my panties off and then he took off the rest of his clothes. Covering me with his body, he started kissing and licking me, moving his hands between my legs and lightly touching my clit and pussy. I was so turned on. My hips were jerking up to him and I started making small noises I couldn’t control. His cock was hard and beautiful. Then I started sucking him, licking his head and watching it jerk and stiffen even more. I licked him and took him in my mouth holding him, feeling his size, sucking gently, moving up and down. I started using my hand on his shaft and he writhed while I sucked. He has a sound he makes when he is turned on that sounds like a growl, it is incredibly sexy and listening to him being turned on made me wetter. I just wanted him to be inside of me.

He put me under him and opened my legs. He pushed his cock inside me, completely filling me up and then he started to move. He had promised to pound me in our emails and boy, did he pound me. He didn’t stop either, he just kept on and on. I had three orgasms and still, he kept going. He pulled out of me and went down on me, licking and sucking my clit, sucking my lips, and putting his fingers inside of me. He kissed me on my thighs and ran his hands over my legs and ass while he made me cum again.

I sucked him some more before he moved to take me from behind. He rubbed his hands over me, holding and squeezing my tits, feeling my clit from behind before he put his cock inside me. He held my hips and completely fucked me, hard and deep. After two hours we had a break and talked for a while and then continued for another hour.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great about our meeting up, about the sex, and I felt very lucky that he was such a nice person and easy to talk to. I like him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t talked to anyone about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way he kept going, he completely satisfied me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea

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