My First BBC



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Have boyfriend
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? like sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

My First BBC

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Black male, average build, well dressed, just met him that night, never knew him till that night, in the hotel lounge, curious.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was sitting at a table by myself and he approached me and asked to join me and I said yes. We had small talk and he asked if he could buy me supper and I said that would be nice. Now, this was not planned, even though I had wanted sex that night. I wore a short, tight skirt with a slit, heels, low cut top, no bra or panties. He invited me to his room to watch TV.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Got to his room and he started kissing me and held my ass, began taking my clothes off, I did not resist but enjoyed it. He was amazed to see I was completely naked under my clothes, let out a gasp, I excused myself to take a quick shower. I came out of the shower and he was in bed naked and I saw his BBC. It was such a shock, I have never seen one that big, black or white. I laid down beside him and he fondled my body, then began licking me. He did not let me give him oral, we began having sex doing it every way possible and when he placed his BBC in my ass it sent me over the edge. He was one of the best lovers I had ever had. I came three times that night and yes he shot his load in my ass. We just laid there after and really just relaxed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged phone numbers. I was still on cloud nine the next day. Whenever he is in town we hook up for plain dirty sex. I feel satisfied when I am with him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? good

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