What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? KY, USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My Husband’s Best Friend/My Best Friend’s Husband
How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? D is Hispanic, about 5’8 and works out a lot. We have hooked-up 3 times in the past year, I met him because he is one of my good friend’s husband they were together for about 6 years. I always found him attractive, but he was married, worked with my husband, and he was the best man at my wedding.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? D and my friend had split up, he began sending me messages on facebook which at first were harmless, until one day he asked me for nudes, and I sent them to him. Because I always thought he was sexy.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time we hooked up was outside of my house. He snuck over late at night and I went out to meet him, he started kissing me and sucking on my nipples, I reached down and could feel his penis which was rock hard. He then put his hand down my pants touched my vagina until I got on the ground and he rammed his dick inside me as hard as he could. It was so cold that he couldn’t finish and begged me to go to his house, so I went inside and told my husband that I was going to the ER because my gallbladder was hurting. I finally made it to his house and before I could even get inside he was pulling my shirt up and sucking my nipples, we made it to the bed and he wasted no time ripping my pants off of me. He put both of my legs on his shoulders and brushed his cock against my clit, asking me how bad I wanted him to fuck me. He then fucked me so hard my head was hitting his headboard, which was banging against the wall, I was screaming because he was a lot bigger than I was used to. After a few minutes he pulled his dick out and asked me to ride him but as we were changing positions he grabbed my hips and ate my pussy like its never been eaten before. I grabbed his head because I knew he was about to make me squirt all over his face, then my legs began to tremble and my pussy exploded all over him. I then told him to lay down and climbed on top so I could fit his huge cock inside me. I put both hands on his chest and slowly began riding until I could feel my body starting to tremble again, I could feel the warmth of his load filling my pussy up until it was leaking out all over him. I got off of him in disbelief that I just had unprotected sex with my husband’s best friend and I let him cum inside me, I felt guilty, but not enough to not do it again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I just had sex with him again today. I dont feel guilty at all. I like having him as my fuck buddy. He knows how to get me off better than anyone I’ve ever been with. I think he is very sexy and just talking aboht him now is making me wet.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Prescription pain killers (Vicodin, Percoset, Demerol, Dilaudid)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My cousin, and my best friend (not his wife).
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His dick is amazing. He’s also very sexy, and there are no strings attached.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He is my husband’s best friend and also one of my good friend’s husband, not to mention my daughter’s best friend’s dad.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it
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