NSA With An Oral Enthusiast



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

NSA With An Oral Enthusiast

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a cute but average dude. I reached out to him on doublelist purely under the pretense of him wanting to satisfy his own oral fixation to my benefit. Total time between responding to the ad and fucking was probably around 2 hours. Overall he struck me as pleasant and sane.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I came over to his place and we smoked a bowl between the two of us, making chitchat somewhat nervously. This was an impulsive first to me, and seemed as though it was the same for him. His apartment was a tiny attic studio with a one-room air conditioner that was incredibly noisy but didn’t actually seem to be doing more than blowing hot air. This made it pretty hard to hear the guy, so when he asked, “are you ready?” I had to ask him to repeat himself twice, but finally gave an enthusiastic “yes” and we laughed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He kissed down my chest before teasing me with light licks around my pussy until I was so aroused that I thrust my hips up towards his face. That’s when the real magic began. This guy had some serious fucking head game and in less than two minutes I was cumming hard, in absolute bliss. Most of my long term relationships have been with women, so I have given and received a lot of excellent oral sex but this man made me realize I had so much to learn. I was sad that I came so quickly, but he didn’t seem to be interested in stopping. Instead he avoided my hypersensitive clit and began tongue fucking me which made my eyes roll back into my head, it was so fucking good. His tongue could reach my g-spot perfectly. I’m still amazed at how excellent he was every step of the way for having only just met me. I came 5…6…7? more times before I said “hey, you know, I’m not going to tell you to stop,” and he replied “good,” and continued eating me out. I asked if I could return the favor and we switched to 69. He had a smallish uncut cock with a long foreskin that didn’t pull back from the head when he was hard, which was a first for me. I had to take frequent breaks from sucking him because I was in such ecstasy and I had cum so many times I was practically delirious. He came without warning (or maybe he did warn me and I couldn’t hear it over the AC? regardless I was sitting on his face so it wouldn’t have been easy to communicate.) and I swallowed to his satisfaction. I rolled over and spent a good 3 minutes seeing stars and being largely incoherent while he left to clean up and get water.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I pretty much just dressed and headed out as soon as I was able to stand. I gave him hella praise for a job well done as I was truly impressed. He said he’d had a great time and that I was welcome to come back any time. I expected this to be a one and done before I left on a vacation, but the day I came back I hit him up again wanting more, and he delivered. We’ve hooked up 3 times total.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told two friends and they both said the same thing: “what are you bothering with sleeping with boys?”

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the part where I was in absolute sexual bliss for like 40 minutes straight 😮

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? no AC 🙁 🙁 🙁

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I used to dismiss NSA sex because in my experience it just wasn’t good if you didn’t know the person well, but this definitely changed my mind about that

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more queer women were down for casual sex!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It gave me a comforting idea of what to expect and a sense of normalcy

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