What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many
Our official last fuck
How long ago did this hookup happen? Tonight
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s the fuck buddy that I had since the start of the year and he leaves his place tomorrow, which is why I am sharing this story.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Ok so in my previous stIory (if it ever gets published), I mentioned I wasn’t sure if we were able to hook-up again this week. After I left work, I messaged that I was totally cool if he couldn’t hook up again. Turns out that he was free tonight but mainly cleaning and packing; I was at the gym doing my workout that he messaged me that he was ok to meet up in between. I took the opportunity to hook-up one last time before he leaves his place tomorrow.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After my gym session tonight, I was feeling a little low on energy as I had the mindset of him totally gone this week and turns out he was slowly packing his stuff away. I expected all this stuff to be completely gone but his mate was going to help him move the next day. Turns out he was still packing and slowly getting there. I bought 2 red wines and white wine and headed to his place.
He had boxes and stuff packing so yeah, I proceeded to put the wines near his sink. I started with the red wine and washed two glasses as they haven’t been washed and poured red wine. He then proceeded to put on a movie that he started last night but fell asleep and decided to watch whilst he was cleaning and packing. Moments later, with red wine into his system and mine, he decided to sit down and watch a bit until he decided to play with me. We were watching a bit and then his hand wandered into my pussy as he wanted to play with it. It felt good as i missed his hands down my area for a while. I wore a purple g-string and playfully mentoned he’ll mis it. My body was enjoying it, shaking and moving around so much where he was enjoying it too. To the time my pussy was wet, I knocked his red wine, by accident. Guess that’s what happens when you have too much fun.
I felt bad and frustrated (and could tell he was annoyed a little) but we ended up cleaning it up (although not perfect but ok). At least we got it out haha. Told me not to worry about it too much, Anyways, we proceeded to drink more red wine, him seeing more the film and then he wanted to fuck me. He took my wine glass and I assured to lay a towel so I don’t make a mess like I did with the red wine.
He wanted to fuck me and I took my shirt and crop top off and then, slightly wet and then he then inserted his dick and fucked me hard. He spanked me too which I wanted to as I’m going to miss it. I squirted and came on his towel, fell a bit to his side where he proceeded to fuck until I lay on my back and he came over my body.
I needed it tonight as I’ve been feeling low and blah over the past few days and wanted one last hookup.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I lay on his towel until he finished showering, watched the end of the movie and then I showered and wished him best with the move tomorrow. He still had things to pack and clean up so I left his place to go home. We shall resume being co-workers until he leaves for his new position at the end of the month.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To make the most of the last night at his place.
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His hands down my pussy, fucking in doggy and spanking me. He was free tonight in between cleaning and packing to hook-up with me one last time. Cumming twice and feeling his cum all over my body one last time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Spilling the wine but at least most of it was out. Him leaving his place tomorrow and it officially ends. Oh wells, at least I had a good last fuck. We both were slightly bummed as it ends but it happens. All good things come to end.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel that this experience has given me a whole new perspective and confidence to go on with life in general since the start of the year.
Communicate with your partner to see where you’re at and whether you are moving on etc as it will give you a perspective on whether it will continue or not. Treat it as if you were in a relationship, even though we weren’t. We had this conversation a month ago and we were on the same page. I’m glad that I got to experience this now rather than later. Good to have a steady arrangement until now and that I enjoy having sex or having that pleasure.
Just as long as both partners are on the same page and with safety, I encourage it. He was someone I trusted so I felt good and safe with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was a last and good hookup something that I needed to mark the end of our casual arrangement. I will miss it but something to look back and affirm that I can have experiences like this.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Although the months ahead will be challenging with shortages at work and finishing university, this will give me time to unwind and focus on what’s ahead for the rest of the year. I do have a few events planned in upcoming weeks and leave next month so it’s good.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’ll read time to time again but this will be my last until I encounter again.
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