Old Workmates

by Douglas

Gender: Male
Age: 41
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Edinburgh
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Have partner
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Old Workmates

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Former work colleague who was 8 years younger, average height,  slim figure with large natural breasts. Very attractive. Never thought of her as a possible hook up

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning at all. Since we stopped working together we kept in touch by text, but only on an odd occasion. Maybe every second month exchange a few messages by SMS. Friday evening received a call from her (which was very unusual). She was at a Hen Party and had been dared to call any male contact on her phone and ask them to send a cock pic. She explained just as mentioned above and constantly apologising saying “not sure why but I decided to call you, please send a pic so I can get my turn over with”.
The fact we hadn’t seen each other for a few years I thought, will never see her again, so I sent the pic. A week later received another call, this time asking “been looking at your pic and wondered if you could come over and let me see it in the flesh”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Without any hesitation I was in the car, 40 minutes later I arrived and as soon as the door of her apartment closed behind me she was kissing me and groping me, then led me into the bedroom, where we performed oral sex on each other, followed by fucking in several positions. Then finished her off giving her oral. All I could think of was, we worked together for 4 years, if only we had been doing this long ago work would have been much more enjoyable. It was very intense, but strangely without any nerves, both relaxed but the closeness we had during sex was something special. We both paid good attention to what the other enjoyed and got them aroused. We then talked about why it happened, then both wished it had happened long before. We are now there for each other when we are in need of some tension release

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Out of the blue

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was clear by both of us it really was and would continue to be a fuck buddy relationship. Still hook up from time to time.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, only between ourselves

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual, unplanned

Wouldn’t say wanted as I’d be lying if I said had never thought of or imagined before.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Hell no

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing is it was enjoyable no strings between both of us, and continues to be so.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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