Older Man



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 16
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? New Zealand
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Prefure not to lable my self
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7

Older Man

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was 32 and before anyone freaks about the age, I knew what I was getting into and was cool with it (bit of excitement). He was tall, really fit and good looking. I meet him with my best friend when we had snuck out to see him (my best friend was sleeping with him). He had a gift for her. I thought he was cool.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We then saw each other again at my best friend’s birthday (they had stopped sleeping together by now). He was there as the bouncer (he is a family friend) and he thought I looked hot, so he put his number in my phone and about a month or so later while my mum was at work and I was off school, he came over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was laying on the couch after smoking weed, and he came over and and started kissing me and grabbed my boobs. Then he started rubbing my clit through my tights and he moved my hand so I could rub his cock through his pants. Then we made our way downstairs where he quickly removed my pants and started eating me out, then took off his pants and slid him self inside me and fucked me hard.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We meet up once more. He still text but the last time he got a bit aggressive so don’t think I want to see him again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah i think people should stop being so judgmental about it like its juat sex natral sex get over it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Do it more just be safe

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