What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 53
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing communications
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
One Last Fling
How long ago did this hookup happen? I was 25
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had hooked up several times over a period of several years before this, basically as booty calls. We’d both go out with other people or even be in relationships, but be bored after a date or something and call the other up to fuck.
She was probably what you’d call at BBW, very curvy. She had a beautiful face, plump lips, gorgeous brown eyes, short, wavy dark brown hair. She was always smiling with a great twisted sense of humor to match my own. She had wonderful, large tits that I often fucked. A big, cushiony ass and a slight paunch.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hadn’t seen each other in a couple of years and ran into each other at a bar. Our usual banter and flirting began when she told me she was getting married the next weekend. I was surprised and almost jokingly said, “Well, we better get out of here and fuck each other one last time.” She squeezed my hand and said, “let’s go to your apartment.” We were making out before we even got to my car.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She pulled my cock out and stroked me on the drive to my place. When we got in the door, clothes started coming off and were left on the floor. We started on the sofa, where she lay back while I knelt and went down on her. She was fantastically wet. My face was drenched with her, and I ate her to her first orgasm right there.
She got down on the floor, pushed me onto my back and mounted me. I pretty much mauled her tits as she fucked me hard and fast. She came again, and I came inside her about as violently and satisfyingly as I ever have.
We got up, drank about a gallon of water and made it to my bed. From there, we made slow, lazy, really nice love for quite a while until I came again. Took a shower, went back to bed and fooled around the rest of the night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were both extremely happy. I cooked us breakfast and we had one last heavy petting and make out session. I drove her back to her car and we didn’t see each other again for three years until we ran into each other in a grocery store and had a nice chat about life.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told a soul due to her circumstances.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was passionate and a nice send off to our fuck buddy years.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoyed casual sex until marriage. Sometimes I miss it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Glad to have found it!
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