What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm Springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5
One More Added
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met P in a chat room. We had chatted some in instant messenger and discovered that we only lived about 20 minutes apart. P had gone to the same high school and church as me but she was about 6 years younger. I was 27 and she was 21. P was about 5 ft 7, 140 pounds, and had smallish tits. At the time I started talking to P, I was in a FWB relationship described in another story here with another young lady that I was seeing and fucking 6-7 days a week. I asked P if she wanted to meet for coffee and she said okay. The coffee meeting went well, so the next week I asked her out to dinner. We kissed a little after dinner and I went home. The next date she asked me to go to her place and she made dinner.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When dinner was over, we sat on her couch, talking and sipping wine. We began to kiss. She pulled me down on the sofa as we made out. I went for her tits and she grabbed my cock. We played with each other while kissing and then headed for the bedroom. We both stripped and got on the bed. I dove between her legs and began working her pussy over with my tongue sucking on her clit. She pivoted around and took my cock in her mouth 69-style. Her technique wasn’t the best but it was ok. I got her to cum
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I spread her legs and placed my cock head at her pussy lips rubbing my cock around to get wet. She had her hands on my ass and was trying to pull me inside her. Finally, she said, “please fuck me now.” I slid my 7 1/2 inch thick cock in, watching her lips get pulled in as I pushed. I pulled slowly out and watched as her lips clung to my shaft. We worked up a rhythm with her matching my thrusts. We fucked for what seemed like 20 minutes but was probably only 5-10 minutes. I finally began shooting rope after rope into her tight pussy. We played some more. She sucked me. I fingered and fucked her. I got up and went home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to meet 3-4 times a week to fuck. The other lady I was seeing 5-6 days a week was only getting out 3-4 days a week now. It was rare that a day went by that I wasn’t fucking one or the other unless I found someone else to spend some time with and there were many of those but that’s for another entry here.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A second lady to enjoy time with
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Juggling my time between two ladies
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I found that I could have sex with more than one person.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I eventually found 4 regular fuck buddies plus another 7 ladies over the following 2 years that I juggled time with. I’ll try to write about each.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea!
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