by College Dude
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck buddies, friends-with-benefits, short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Originally met on Tinder (as a college student, I probably pray more to that App then I do in church), talked for a bit during the semester but then things heated up during the summer. Before hooking up I thought she was a hot hot hot piece of ass (sorry for the language, college boy writing this.) She had been doing pageants and was a model in the previous years so I knew what I was getting myself into, and was quite excited. We had not previously met (just talked on Tinder and then texted) up until a certain part of the summer.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Was sitting at work one day and randomly got a message from this girl on facebook. There was a big concert in town later that week and she needed someone to go with. After remembering how damn sexy my Tinder photos were, I guess she got the idea of asking me to it. So we went on our first “date” to that concert. That night we messed around under the sheets, doing everything BUT sex. She was going home that weekend and I was leaving town for another concert, so we continued to talk and build things up to when we were both back in town early that next week. She seemed pretty persistent which was strange coming from the female.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we both returned to town, the sex started almost immediately. And this wasn’t just the usual bust a nut and move on ordinary sex. This was hot, sweaty, and orgasmic for both parties involved every night. We got to the point where I was spending the night 4 out of the 7 days of the week (that pussy has to heal sometime;) ). What kept this going though was on the first night we both got hooked on the new netflix show “Orange is the New Black”. Every night we would watch an episode, drink, and then fuck each other like it was the only thing to do on Earth. This lasted for the duration of the first season of the show and then after it ended we would just watch random crap on Netflix, but it was that show that brought us together because we were both new to it and so fascinated because its a pretty kick ass show!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Birth control, plus half the times I would pull out and she would quickly position her mouth and suck all the cum out of my dick and swallow. The other times I would simply just cum in her…cause can that feeling ever be beat?
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Both wanted to watch Orange is the New Black and then obviously there was a lot of sexual attraction for each other. Made for a pretty good summer hook up that was pretty consistent.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was involved but wasn’t the reason behind our hookups. Drank just couple drinks each time. Never black out drunk with her.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Accidentally texted her, thinking it was one of her sorority sisters who I was close with talking about our relationship…so that basically ended things. Have texted casually since, but haven’t hooked up.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Her sorority sister whom I am good friends with and then just some of my guy friends. Was pretty well received as a good hook up.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? No I hated it and didn’t want this beautiful model to fuck me!….Duh!!! It was consensual. We both knew it was a hook up with a little more, both had feelings for each other that grew over the summer but we were both smart enough to end things when the semester started back up in the fall.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? NOPE! Pretty proud of this one I must say, she was a dime. And the sex was amazing. The whole situation was actually pretty darn good. Summer, sex, netflix, booze….can it get much better?
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: The consistency of the hookups, was multiple times every week. It has changed me in the way that Im okay with having lots more sex in the same day. Not just one and my need is taken care of for the day but 3, 4 times a day when Im in a relationship that is going good. 3-4 times, 7 days a week.
Worst: The fact that things had to end when summer ended, pretty shitty but it was for the best.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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Would you like to be contacted in the future for potential participation in research?: Yes, please
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What is your gender?: Male
How old are you?: 20
What is your race/ethnicity?: White
Where do you live currently?: Missouri
What’s the highest education you have received?: Some college (currently in college)
What is your occupation?: Student
Relationship status?: Single
What is your religious affiliation?: Christian
How religious are you?: A little
What best describes your sexual orientation?: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best?:
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)?: 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before?: 0
Give your hookup story a NAME: Orange is the new roofie
How long ago did this hookup happen?: 1 year
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)?: fuck buddies, friends-with-benefits, short fling