Our First Meeting

by ItsElle

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6-7

Our First Meeting

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 2 years younger than me but is good looking and cute too. He has an athletic build and is Middle Eastern (Iranian). I found him attractive and he did me. We met through my current workplace, but he works in an entirely different area. Just before Christmas, my colleague told me that he was interested in me. There were signs that he was interested in me in the past year, but I didn’t seem to take note. I thought about it while on my Christmas break. At first, I was hesitant but then changed my mind as I returned. A few weeks later, we exchanged details and went from there.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I asked him what he was doing on Saturday, only worked for 4 hours, and arranged to meet him. I met him across from where he worked and then we went to his place. He lives in the city, so it was not too far from his work. We just wanted to see where the day went from there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his place after work and chilled and relaxed in his lounge room. It was the first time I visited his place. We chatted for a little bit and then went to his bedroom. We laid on the bed and then proceeded to make out. Sometime later, his hands were on my pants and unzipped them. It happened in the spur of the moment. I took off my pants and then he unzipped his pants to reveal his hard dick. We then took our shirts off and then laid back on the bed. My pussy was throbbing and then he slid his cock up my pussy and then inserted it. For some reason, it felt right and really good without resorting to any alcohol. We then fucked for some time, kissed and made-out. Later, I came and then he came in my mouth. He asked me throughout the session if I was okay, which was nice. Then I laid on my belly and we fucked in a flat position and we both came again. He did want to try anal, but I wasn’t ready at that time. I did feel him put a little finger in my butthole though.

We cleaned up and then laid in bed and chatted a bit. We were hungry so we ate burgers and went for a walk. Then it was time to head home as he was sleepy and we went our separate ways.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really good and happy. We met again a week later and I popped my anal cherry and to my surprise, really enjoyed it this time (another story later).

I also wanted to see if he could be a potential boyfriend. Right before Valentine’s Day, he messaged me that we couldn’t be a couple romantically, but we could be fuck buddies. I was a bit down for 12 hours, but after some thought, this arrangement would be better IMO. He’s a nice guy, but we didn’t click romantically.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? New partner, who was equally attractive and took care of himself. Orgasming without alcohol was a bonus. Feeling a new dick inside of me.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We couldn’t be a couple romantically, as I originally thought. Other than that, nothing else.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m now at the stage where I am considering having 2 fuck buddies (won’t tell anyone) until I find someone romantically. One locally and down south as mentioned in a long time ago story (he doesn’t know and won’t tell yet).

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I will enjoy it until I get settled.

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