What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Our Last Meet Up.
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy is the same fuck-buddy who I reunited with at the start of the year, which I mentioned lives 1.5 hours away from me. He messaged me and asked if I wanted to come over for the weekend, but I already had plans on Sunday. So, I arranged to leave on Friday night and go down to his place and leave Saturday afternoon. This hookup would be our last, as we will no longer be able to see each other afterward.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Due to my class schedule, I had Friday off, and I caught the train down to him and later took a cab from the station to his place. He was waiting for me and was watching Twitch Tv.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did the usual chit-chat for a little bit and caught up. He then mentioned that he had the latest Crash Bandicoot video game and so we were playing that for a little bit. We had a few drinks in between and it was not too long later that his hands began to pull my pants down. I then laid on his couch and pulled my top off and then my pants, and we started fondling and kissing. He started to sniff me as well lick me, and then I sucked his hard cock. He then led me to his bedroom and we fucked missionary. He fucked me so good, and I came so hard, only to be followed by him cumming on my stomach.
We then took a break and ordered McDonald’s, watched Twitch for a bit, and then we fucked again. This time it was doggy style and we came and came again. After we finished, we were laying on the bed and soon realized how late it was getting and it was time for us to snooze. He made up his bed and we fell right asleep.
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up, hard and horny. He slid his dick into my wet pussy, and we fucked again. Once we were done, we spent the rest of the day watching Twitch TV, YouTube, playing some crash bandicoot until the afternoon rolled around and it was time for me to leave.
He messaged me if I wanted to meet up this coming weekend but couldn’t since I already had plans. It was at that point that I realized that we wouldn’t have another chance to see each other any time soon. I messaged me and told him that I enjoyed all of our time together and to keep in touch if we were in the same place and wanted to hook up again sometime in the distant future, and he said the same back to me. We ended it with a “take care” and “it’s bye for now.”
We both mentioned that we wouldn’t be free for a long while but remained hopeful for the future.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself
How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Playing Crash Bandicoot, seeing him for the last time for a long time, having sex with him, enjoying the last overnight trip.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Unfortunately, all good things must come to an end since we won’t be able to see each other again, at least not for a while.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Just as long as it is clear between both parties from the start, then I feel like it can be good. But also keep in mind that all good things do come to an end. He and I had a good 8 months this year seeing each other again. For me, it was always a good relief to see him again when there was an opportunity. As someone with Aspergers, it’s easy to overanalyze everything (I even had a small moment there), but now I reflect on all of this happening and I much more aware now that I’m older.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I had a really good time hanging with him and even though I don’t expect it to happen, I am hopeful that we will keep in touch if we wanna see each other again in future. Now that I’m typing all of this out, I feel better now.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This will be my last post for a little bit, so goodbye for now.
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