Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? Recently
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, paid sex; something else.)? Fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was fairly good looking. Unusually different in a good way. Little younger not much. Causal friends for almost a year. Flirted for a few months with each other. We meet each other at a mutual hangout. Still interested in him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had been flirting with each other for months. Casual touching, a kiss here and there. We went for a walk and was talking, ended up by my car. And that was that. I think I started it all.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was oral along with touching. I got really turned on. Soaked my pants. We both were very sensual towards each other. We both knew exactly what we wanted and what we were doing. There was no talking. He kissed me and left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No discussions . Both in safe monogamous relationships outside the hookup.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Mutual attraction. Companionship for me a little. Looking for a bit of human closeness.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was drunk not sure about him. I had been drinking for hours prior.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We started texting and we have hooked up about five times since. Not sure what the future holds, going with the flow.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only one close friend, we both wanted discretion. My friend was shocked in a good way.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was building up for months.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was it was really good. Worst is I wish we’d have started sooner. My attitudes remain the same.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Just wanna say I’m more inclined to hook up since I got a bit older and went through menopause.
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