What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8
Picking up a Lonely Mom
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Renate is 42, she has short reddish hair and blue eyes. Her breasts are nice and big but already a bit saggy. She is about 170 cm tall, with an average body I guess.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My friend Bernd’s girlfriend had just left him. He was sad and angry about it. To cheer him up, I suggested that we go to a night club where I would help him pick up a hot girl. I have told Bernd a lot of my sexual adventures and he has admitted being a bit envious about my successes. I told him that he could be just as successful, he just has to follow my motto: “Try everything and reject nobody”.
Unfortunately, we did not get lucky in the night club of our choice. We tried something and it went bad so we had to leave. We had tried to pick up the wrong girls to cut this part short.
After we had fled from the night club, we went on a pub crawl. We went through a few bars, but still no luck. In the bar that should be our last we met Renate. She was sitting her by herself, obviously drunk. She walked over to us as we were ordering beer.
Renate was this kind of drunk that starts telling you their entire life story and all their sorrows. We had to listen to it. She was a single mother whose daughter had just left her to join the navy. Now she was alone in her apartment, bla bla bla. A lonely woman. We endured to listen because I had the strong impression that Renate wanted more than just someone who would listen to her problems. Renate was sitting in between us and frequently placed her hands on our arms and thighs.
When she went to the toilet, Bernd and I had the opportunity to talk. I told Bernd that I was sure that Renate would go home with either of us. I offered to leave the bar so he could have fun with Renate. Bernd responded that Renate seems to be more a case for me. He obviously did not adhere to my motto of accepting everybody. Too bad for him, nothing I can do about that! He offered to leave once he had finished his beer.
After Bernd had left, Renate pretty bluntly asked me whether I would want to go home with her. I had not expected her to be that direct, but it sped up the affair. I told her that I’d prefer if she could come with me, because I live nearby and had to get up early in the morning.
Renate was fine with that and we left the bar. She kissed me enthusiastically once we were on the street. Holding hands we walked the few meters to my apartment. We were both very drunk and horny.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In my apartment, Renate remarked that i she was surprised a student would live by himself in an apartment this size. She must have thought that I am even younger than I actually am. I offered Renate to sit on my sofa, where I do most of the fucking when I take a woman home. However, she wanted to go straight to bed.
I did not expect the sex with Renate to be nothing more than the average drunk hook up. I was pleasantly surprised. Renate is really dirty and horny in bed. A lot of fun. She kissed and licked my chest, bit into my nipples, gave me an enthusiastic blowjob. Her tits were big enough to give me a satisfying tittiefuck. I almost came on her breasts just stopped it because I remembered that I still had to satisfy Renate. I reimbursed Renate for the pleasures she had given me by licking her bushy, hairy pussy until she came. We proceeded to fuck in various positions until I came, too.
We kissed for a bit and then I set my alarm clock and went to sleep.
A few hours later, the alarm clock beeped and while I was trying to wake up properly, Renate went straight to my penis. She sucked me a bit which made me wake up. I told her that I did not have much time because I had to go to my shift, no matter how hungover I was. Renate said she would make me coffee to save time but she wanted a good morning quickie. I slipped inside her even without condoms and fucked her missionary style. Fortunately it only took me a few minutes until I could pull out and ejaculate all over Renate’s body.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Renate really made the breakfast. It was weird having this strange woman using my kitchen. This got us talking again and we exchanged telephone numbers.
Renate is my regular fuck buddy right now. It is a purely sexual relationship, we do not have much in common. But the sex is good. She enjoys having a young lover and I am content that I always have someone to fuck without any hassle. As a bonus, Renate is a bit kinky and allows me all kind of stuff. I can do anal, and she has given me tittie fucks until I came on her breasts.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to Bernd about it. He was ok that he missed out on the opportunity. He insists on having to find sex partners his age.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a regular fuck buddy so I don’t have to look for new women all the time. I like how open Renate is to various forms of sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? To be honest, I do wish that my fuck buddy was a bit younger. Renate has shown me pictures of her daughter and I thought that I would be interested in that girl.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am happy that I don’t constantly have to look for women at the moment. I am busy with other aspects of my life and looking for sex partners can really be draining.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I will always go for casual sex. I love it, it is so exiting. Just taking a time off at the moment with Renate. I will certainly go hunting for new women again.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great source of hot stories.
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