Plugging It In



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 55
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 13

Plugging It In

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Amy was a lovely lady I met at a gathering and was instantly taken by her. She was attractive, slim and had a sweet disposition. She was about 40 years old but didn’t look it. My media position at the time put me there, and I felt very compelled to know her. Amy, as I found out, was somehow well connected. Her former husband came from a well to do family, and thus had plenty of high brow friends. We became friends moreso after a personal relationship breaks up, and we would see each other.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had plans to go out, but we both ditched them. I grabbed a bottle of wine, two glasses, picked Amy up and drove to a park where we polished off the bottle. I drove us back to my house for another bottle and stayed in. We started to get buzzed, laughing over silly things and we got close. I leaned in to kiss her, and we connected. Amy got excited, and next thing we’re groping each other. She had some nice smallish tits that fit my mouth perfectly. I sucked on them while I tried to get her jeans off. We decided to go to my bedroom, off came the clothes, and we continued. Amy jerked my hard dick while we kissed, then she slid down to suck my dick. Her lips were so good! She also licked my stiff shaft. I was trying to finger her, and she came close enough and I slid a couple of digits into her wet pussy. Amy came up on me and we enjoyed some 69. She tasted great.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we finished with 69, I split her legs open and started fucking her hard. Amy put her legs on my shoulders so I could go balls deep in her. Her moans and sighs made me harder. It was even better when I fucked her doggy style. She couldn’t get enough. We just kept fucking for what seemed like hours. No telling how it had been since Amy had some sex, but she was making up for lost time. It sounds strange, but when I tried to pull my dick out, Amy’s pussy clamped it, like it was keeping it in. I wasn’t complaining, but it was different. We didn’t finish for a while. I finally came on her ass.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We lay around, and Amy played with my dick. Telling me she wanted some more.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hot hot fuck

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Stopping

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Wish stuff like this happened more often

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good site

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!