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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Executive.Assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open to suggestions
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M and I met a few months ago at a conference we were both working at. We have hooked up twice since and exchanged lots of delicious messages in between.
We are both married but share an amazing sexual chemistry that is irresistible. We have a natural understanding of each other, our desires and the situation we are in, and I trust him completely.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? M let me know that he would again be staying in a hotel in town, so I made arrangements to join him.
M was going to be working late, so he left a key for me at Reception. I dropped off my bag in the morning on the way into work.
That evening I had dinner and then returned to the hotel room to shower and await M. I sent M regular updates and pictures as I dressed for him in corset, stay-ups and crotchless underwear.
We have a dom/sub vibe to our exchanges, so I asked my Master which of the toys I had brought for our mutual enjoyment I was allowed to use. He chose stainless steel. (The other options were glass, jade and stone.)
After a few failed attempts, I captured a few moments of masturbating and sent it to M to distract and delight him.
Finally I received a message saying he would be back soon. I asked how many minutes in a soon? 5-10mins was the reply.
I readied myself on the edge of the bed and a short while later the sound of M’s voice saying goodnight to someone in the hall could be heard just before the door was opened.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? M entered the room and came straight over to the bed. His fingers traced along the edge and detailing of my corset. He slid his hands inside to play with my nipples. I stood to kiss him. M’s kisses are so wonderful – every so often he will catch my lip gently with his teeth, biting and teasing.
I unbuttoned his shirt as we kissed and he unzipped my corset. I undid his trousers then dropped to my knees to give him head.
M said “I need a shower and your coming with me.”
We moved to the shower. I soaped M and rubbed his shoulders as we kissed. He then turned me around, I bent over and he entered me while I played with his balls. I slowly moved to a more upright position and M fondled my breasts as I came. We changed positions, fucking standing face to face.
We finished and dried each other before returning to the bed. M told me to perform for him. I started by touching my clit and then grabbed my jade dildo and masturbated. He grabbed my stainless steel dildo and started playing with my anus, sliding it inside me. I was in ecstasy.
After cumming, I again sucked M’s hard, throbbing cock. I paused and M said: “Who said you could stop?”
“Who said I was stopping?” I replied as I repositioned myself to suck him more and so he could touch me.
We fucked missionary, reverse cowgirl and finished with me on top, where we both came.
We cleaned up ourselves and the toys and then talked for a while before turning out the lights. M fell asleep quickly (he’d had a long day and an early start the next day), and I soon followed.
The next morning, we woke and I reached over and started playing with M’s dick. Sadly, the alarm went, M got ready and left for work.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After M went to work, I stayed in bed for a couple of hours then got up, showered and left. We exchanged a few messages throughout the morning – he was only just going to make it back for checkout, I was already on my way home.
It felt important to already be gone before M returned. Clean and neat. I am deeply in lust with M – he is an amazing lover and knows exactly how to turn me on. We aren’t smitten teenagers, we are adults with lives and people we don’t want to hurt just because we are enjoying each other.
I felt blissful afterwards – the ego boost of being desired and fulfilment of being so satisfied. I look forward to next time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The many orgasms.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? M leaving so early the next morning and that there was no electric blanket on the bed.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic
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