What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ohio
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Insurance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I love women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her at the park behind my house. She runs the trail a couple of times a week. After seeing each other a few times we struck up a conversations and would run part of the trail together talking. She is 5’10” blond hair blue eyes very sexy, with nice womanly curves. 29 years old. I felt like we were becoming friends and I did find her attractive, actually fantasized about her while jacking off a couple of times.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was the first Saturday in October and I was trying to get a run in. As I was about a mile from home an in expected storm popped up and it was a cold rain soaking rain. As I ran by a shelter I heard my name – it was her cold and soaked. I stopped her husband was out of town at a football game. My house was close; I invited her over to warm up and get dry. We ran to my house soaked and freezing. I showed her the bathroom and brought her a towel and some clothes. I dried up, changed, and made her some coffee. She came out of the bathroom in a flannel shirt I gave her. It didnt look like she had any pants on because the shirt was so long. Well I gave her a blanket to wrap up in and get warm while I dried her clothes. When I went into the bathroom I noticed her underwear in the pile with her clothes and the shorts I gave her. I realized she wasn’t wearing anything under the flannel. I went out and we talked for a bit. Conversation went quickly to flirting to sex to cheating.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing and I unbuttoned each button taking off the shirt exposing her body. Her skin was soft and sensitive to my touch. I started to kiss her nipples and suck on them, her response was intense so I went back and forth between her nipples. I wanted to touch her pussy but didn’t want to stop the pleasure I was giving her by playing and sucking her boobs. She started to moan louder. She was having an orgasm from nipple stimulation. She pushed me back and mounted me cowgirl style. She was ready and my cock slid right into her, she picked up a quick pace and her pussy felt better then I imagined. I was getting close to cumming and she started grinding her clit on me. We both came and she fell off me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I made her lunch, and we had sex again while the football game her husband was at was on TV. Turns out we fill a need in each other’s lives.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We are good together.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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