by Ryan D
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Prmosiscuous, Horny, a Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 130+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 7
Screwing My Promiscuous Neighbour
How long ago did this hookup happen? Just a few months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Natalie was a real stunner. She had recently moved into my apartment complex, and I had seen her around. She had black hair and startling blue eyes, a really fit body, with especially large breasts. She slept around quite a bit and had a reputation for such at our complex. She had a parade of different guys be coming in all the time. I had often seen her at night on the balcony, wearing a robe and with different guys. Needless to say, I was pretty horny for her. We had struck up a friendly conversation once and she was pretty cool, to say the least
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day, after we had got closer, she invited me over for a movie and dinner. I happily obliged and hoped that we could fuck. I went over, we had dinner and opened a bottle of wine. We proceeded to get a little drunk and she then asked if I wanted to smoke. If you don’t know, having sex after smoking marijuana is the best thing ever. So we smoked a couple of joints and started talking about our sex lives. She proceeded to tell me about a couple of other men and women she had been fucking and what she likes. I knew this was getting us both worked up, so I finally went in to kiss her. We immediately started making out
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We tore each other’s clothes off and I immediately went down on her. She was even fitter than I thought (turns out she was a fitness coach) and super flexible too. We had all kinds of sex, both oral and otherwise. My favorite was doggy style since it led to her screaming for more. When a woman shows her appreciation at sex, it really turns me on. We had several rounds before we fell asleep
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next morning, she was actually a little awkward, saying she didn’t actually plan on sleeping with me. However, she said she really liked it and I told her the same. I hoped we could continue. We then had sex again and she gave me a great blowjob. We switched numbers and have been fuck buddies ever since. We’ve even had a few threesomes. However, we need to be careful because she did say she had a long distance boyfriend she didn’t want to break up with.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it, Peer pressure, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke about it with a couple of other fuck buddies, who were happy for me. It made sex sessions hotter, and I was able to arrange for a few threesomes with Natalie and a couple of them. Overall, a pretty sick situation.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just getting to fuck someone that hot. Also, getting to hear sex stories from her was pretty amazing. The marijuana was also amazing, making the whole experience better.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? not really. Just made me certain I’m meant to have more casual sex with as many beautiful, hot, sexy women I can meet.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Natalie and I still fuck regularly. We thought about being in a relationship, but decided we liked having sex with each other. But we’re also friendly with each other and have hung out where we didn’t have sex.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s been a huge part in my life. I really enjoy fucking many beautiful women and I intend to keep doing it for a while.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great
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