What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Bangladesh
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2017
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 2 years older than me. She was short like 4’11” but cute. She has huge titties as she fucked many guys before. She enjoys sex with strangers. I did like her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to private coaching and met her. We walked like we were dating and looked at each other. We saw the thirst of sex in each other. So she took me to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She undressed me immediately and kissed me all over. She started sucking me. She sucked for like 15-20 minutes and I cummed 2/3 times. Then I undressed her, licked her pussy, sucked her boobs and kissed her. After these, I slowly entered in her and she started moaning. We kept kissing during sex. We changed positions and she sucked me between those. After like 40 minutes of fuck, she seriously started giving me a blowjob where I cummed for the 4th time and that was it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We never had sex, but kissed each other when we meet but showed gratitude for that day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting fucked and sucked by a girl older than you is really different.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? We should have sex when we get chance.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We should care for each other.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great to share.
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!