Short Vacation Hookup

by HookupGuy

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Software Developer
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Short Vacation Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was the first time meeting her. She was 34, slim and of Asian ethnicity, very beautiful. We met online in a chat App, both in ending marriages. She lived in Switzerland.
We decided to meet so I traveled there for a hookup, we didn’t pursue romantic feelings.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at my hotel and talked a bit about how happy we are to finally meet in person. We didn’t plan it exactly, just that we wanted to see if the sexual tension is the same in person as online.
I took her out and we walked around Locarno, the city we stayed in. We had lunch together and then went back to my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was mostly normal fun, we undressed while making out, kissed and performed oral on each other. Kissing was very weird as she just stretched out her tongue and didn’t close her eyes. After making her cum with my tongue I put on a condom and entered her, missionary-style. But she was very wet and with the condom, I didn’t feel enough so had some trouble staying hard. When I slipped out she gave me a blowjob to get it hard but I had some trouble. She then took the condom of saying we don’t need it and continued to blow me. She then moved up and kissed me, we made out and I got hard again, rubbed myself on her. I didn’t want to fuck her without a condom as she was not on the pill. The tension was so high that I couldn’t resist and entered her bare. She reminded me not to cum inside and we fucked for a while. She came again and I got closer too, a few moments before cumming I pulled out and came all over her body, I even hit her face which she swiped away with a finger and licked it of, saying she licked my taste. We cuddled naked for a while before taking a shower together. Then she went back to her husband. She did anything I asked her too, while the sex was good I missed the feelings I usually have for my partners. It was still great but in the difficult relationship situation also hurt a bit. She was kind and understanding. We didn’t talk as much as I wanted. Communication was a bit difficult and she is a bit to quiet.

The next day we met again, I drove to a nearby mountain where we enjoyed the view and after eating food went back to my hotel again. This time the sex was better, we tried the condom but removed it as it didn’t work again. This time we switched positions often and I came on her body again. She came during oral and sex. We lay together cuddling naked for a long time. Before she had to leave again we did it a second time, but I didn’t cum again. I don’t think she came either.
The last day we just met for a short time, we didn’t talk, just got down and fucked again. No condom involved, just raw and pure passion. I came on her back, we showered and then she had to leave. I packed my stuff and drove back to Germany.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had a bit of nerves because we didn’t use any sort of protection or birth control. We both wanted more but I didn’t like that she was on her phone a lot because it made communication difficult.
It was a great experience for me and made me more self-confident about my sexuality which lead to a couple more encounters.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife, she was very happy about it that I had a good time.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A great experience.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It hurt as it was a sign of the ending relationship and I knew I didn’t have the future with the hookup either.
Her kissing was really weird and I didn’t like it.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I’m much more open to it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should be more accepted as it is a part of our nature.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great project. Keep up the good work.

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