What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A very sexual person
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Snapchat Meetup In A Park
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was very tall which I didn’t know since this was the first time meeting him in person. He’s a football player and built very much like one: big, strong, and tall. We had talked on Snapchat for a few months before. He was constantly asking for my number but I never gave him my real one or I would avoid the question. Eventually I gave in and we began texting. We had tried to meet up multiple times, but this was the first time it worked out. I wasn’t sure how it was going to go, but I was in the mood to just go for it. He parked his car at a school a block from my house and I walked to it. We drove around for a while. The plan was to go to a party, but it fell through so we were looking for someplace to stop. We ended up in an elementary school parking lot.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were in the park just talking. We had been talking for probably over an hour in the car as we had also gotten ice cream. We talked about hooking up over Snapchat so we both had an idea that it was going to happen. Then he mentioned something casually and we began making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first, we were standing up. As we were making out his hands were all over. At first, they were on my side then they moved down and he was under my shorts. Then he moved under my bra and unclipped it, and I took it off. After we moved to a bench where we continued making out. His lips were so soft and he was an amazing kisser. He took his dick out and I started to give him a handjob. We had talked about me giving him a blowjob on Snapchat so I offered at that moment. It was my first time, but it felt extremely normal and natural. He came on my chest, as I was topless at the point, and in my mouth. After he finished I gathered my clothes and he drove me home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good and excited about it. We talked about it and we had both enjoyed it. We are actually planning to hang out tonight at his place.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my friends and they were all very supportive and wanted to hear about it. But they also told me that it was a little crazy to be naked in a park.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very pleasurable, but also casual, with no strings attached.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The location probably.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has made me more likely to have casual sexual encounters and to enjoy them more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As long as there’s good communication and both partners consent and come out equally satisfied, I think it’s a fine thing and even good.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool to read others stories and it’s nice to tell my own.
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